She's 21, black with a perfect ass, very sexy. We've talked about a threesome with one particular friend tons of times. We even had him sleep over and while I was fingering her she told me to go get him to join but he was drunk and wouldn't wake up. The topic has gone cold and she said no last time the opportunity came up but I really want this to happen. What should I do?
Since you seemingly didn't get this great post, OP, read this: respect her wishes and learn what's pillow talk and fantasy versus a plan. ETA clarity.