want to have girl/girl experience with roommate's friend

Yes :daisy:

 

I get the feeling that she's just been bluffing & doesn't really want to have sex with you & just a friendship without benefits.
Do you have a way of finding someone else to hook up with to explore your sexual desires or was she for some reason the only one you have had feelings for ?
She may have been just flirting with you but not how you hoped it would end up.
I feel sorry for you knowing she's maybe not really that interested in you after all?

 

No she's not the only one. I mean the only feelings I had were "Damn she's hot, I want her" lol. Maybe you're right... although she was definitely willing to take it all the way, I mean less she orchestrated the whole thing with the dogs and neighbors. I guess I'll see when she comes back.

 

Hopefully you will both see more of each others bodies to.
Why not book a motel (and lock the door) for you both away from any detractions & get to do what you want overnight to each other.
I'm sure she would be more than willing to pay half the costs.

 

Um..I live in America and no one says weiner unless they're making a joke. What kind of girl goes "Oh yeah, put your weiner in me"?

 

Lol I've never heard it in that sense, but I use to work with a girl (RIP) who would talk explicitly about sex A LOT, more than me, and she would ALWAYS say wiener as her choice word. She would say things like "And he wonders why I don't suck his wiener more often" or "I was riding his wiener when so and so came home" or whatever. It always made me cringe whenever I heard that.

 

lol that sounds so silly though!

 

Agreed! Like I said, sounds like a middle schooler lol. I can't imagine she would say it to a guy during sex, although who knows. Another one I can't stand is vajayjay.

 

Yeah, I think if my man told me that his weiner is very hard, I'd be like...huh?

And omg I hate vajayjay too. It sounds so fucking stupid. I mean there doesn't seem to be that many names for it. Vagina sounds too proper for sex talk, **** is a little too dirty (for my tastes anyway), and pussy works just fine.

Wouldn't it be awesomely hilarious if someone who says Vajayjay and someone who says Weiner got together? Vajayjay and Weiner. Almost sounds like a sitcom.

 

Haha that's awesome! I could picture it being about two goofball lawyers or maybe inept cops.

 

Going back to the tits/boobs thing, I had a friend who insisted on calling tits "jugs". I mean I've heard guys use that term like maybe once. I've heard it in movies. But come on! She would be like "does this bra make my jugs look good". It was like some cheesy sitcom character trapped inside her body.

 

Lmao yeah I could see that.

And about jugs? That sounds so 80s comedy to me.

 

I usually refer to woman's boobs as breasts or tits. Depends how big their breasts are thou.
Knockers is another slang word for them to - well here in NZ they are called that sometimes.

 

Interesting development here...

So a few nights ago my roommate's boy toy (thought they were dating, but turns out they are not) was over, and I could hear them having sex in her room. I have heard this once or twice before, so it wasn't the biggest deal.

Anyway last night me and the roommate were sitting around watching tv and drinking some beer. I think she started talking about him, how she was unsure if he was boyfriend material, and I kinda just blurted out "you guys sounded like you were having a good time the other night". So she said something like "Oh yeah, we were kind of loud huh?" To which I said yeah but it was no problem, it didn't really bother me. So then, I don't know if it was because I brought up this slightest embarrassing fact that she felt the need to bring one up about me... but she said something along the lines of "so you've been hanging out with my friend huh?"

I suddenly froze, trying to think of what to say. All I could muster was a "yeah, a little". So my roommate says "Yeah... she told me you guys had some fun". She had this wicked smile on her face as she said this, btw. Then she says "I heard about the neighbor" and then she started laughing like she was in on the joke. I didn't know what to say, and I started to blush. Then she goes "I didn't know you were into that kind of stuff."

Suffice to say I was kinda speechless. I don't know what kind of details she told my roommate - sounds like most of them maybe? I was quiet for a few moments, then quickly changed the subject, and didn't revisit it. Hope it's not going to be awkward around my roommate now.

 

Doesn't sound like you have to worry about your room mate finding out lol. Or being angry about it either. If she didn't approve i'd think she would have had more to say about.

Looking forward to reading more of your journey.

 

everyone knows that this thread is totally fictional, right?

 

Lol what makes you say that?

Btw this is the second time someone has accused me of this! Are you going to say it's because I describe things in too much detail?

 

It would be even more interesting if your room mate decided to show you she's more interested in you sexually ( that would put a new twist on things ) now she knows you have a bi sexual side to you
Do you like your room mate in any sexual way at all?
She may get to spend more time hanging out with you.

 

Eh... I'm pretty sure she's not bisexual. Also, I don't think it would be a good match. She's cute and all, but I don't want to risk any awkwardness with her since I live with her.

 

Any new developments on this?