Want to come out but...

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by BiRob, Dec 28, 2019.

  1. BiRob

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    I so badly want to let my wife know i'm bi but i know she wont take it well. Im pretty sure she knows i have bi leanings. Added to this i belong to a faith that doesnt accept lgbtq2i people.
     
  2. TopMan1955

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    I know it is hard, but some things are better left unsaid. Treat you M2M encounters like any other activity you’d have with your men friends, whether it be golf, or playing cards or riding motorcycles, it’s an activity you enjoy. Leave it at that
     
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  3. marriedman50

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    Would love to be able to be open with my wife about my bi side. But I'm pretty sure it would change her feelings for me irrevocably, and not for the better, so won't happen. But in an ideal world she'd know and we could both see others on the side.
     
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  4. MJSkier

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    Didn’t do it, didn’t go well for me!
     
  5. marriedman50

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    It didn't go well for you because you didn't tell your wife?
     
  6. MJSkier

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    No I came clean w everything and it was Some very bad times for a long time thing are still not the same
     
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  7. marriedman50

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    That's my fear, so keeping it under wraps for the foreseeable future...
     
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  8. joshhill5404

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    Came clean before I got married to my wife. We have shared a couple men. Not recently but she knows I’ll occasionally get a blowjob from a guy. I’ll let her know. She’s bi too. So it’s a win win for me.
     
  9. Hotbothered

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    My wife created bi in me. She wanted to peg me for so long and I said no. Then one night I let her. I phukkin loved it. She got all weird and quit doing it. Won't do it. Now I fantasize about having a real cock but I know it won't ever happen.
     
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  10. NXCUCK

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    She maybe quit pegging you because you didn’t move on to adding a third to your relationship. Maybe ?
     
  11. Totally Yoda

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    I came clean to my wife and told her everything. She's actually happy that I told her since she kinda figured it out. She encourages me to keep going and she accepts me for who I am.
     
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