Me and my wife have been married 14 happy years. We don't hide anything. Problem is my wife has a high sex drive and i cannot keep up. I have a bad knee from an accident many years ago, and i work 60+ hours a week random hours. We have 3 kids. She tells me She plays. With herself when I'm sleeping, or when she is in the tub. I have given her toys i believe she bored of. She prefers the real thing. I have told her that she is free to do what She wants with another man as long as i know who, what, when and we talk about it after. She said it is cheating and she won't do it. So i told her i always had a fantasy of watching and she liked the idea for a short term but thought i was gonna get jealous. So for fun she was flerting with my good friend flashing him and stuff. But he just got done with a long relationship and Didnt take much to it. But me an her got turned on big time. This was the last thing we did. Ive gotten her to join up adultspace and she had some flertation going on there with some pictures and chats. That she loved. She said she would love to do mfm or just me watch. But doesn't wanna risk our marriage. I'm stumped on how to convince her. The only thing is I've told her i will stop it if i don't like it. I've tried everything to convince her but no luck. Any ideas would be great. Thank you. Please don't respond with stupid responses like you will come do her. I'm looking for real answers.
She could sell some time on one of the cam sites. Get off and get paid. Assuming she is remotely attractive.
We have done everything in the bedroom from making videos to toys, to different locations. Pretty much done it all solo. I try getting her off anyway i can before penetration. Some times I don't finish so i make sure she got satisfied. We moved to another state and don't have friends. We don't drink so going bar hopping won't do any good.
My wife and myself tried mfm threesomes about a year and a half back. We loved them! We had discussed it several times about me being jealous and I told her that we had a solid marriage for 20 years so let try it to spice things up. We loved them and have had probably 40-50 times in a year. We still have a solid marriage and we love each other just as much before we had started them. You can never be positive until the first time you see your wife with another guy. We got lucky and had a friend that had recently divorced. Good luck and talk about it with your wife, maybe you guys could just get together with another guy with boundaries to go by.
Why don't you ask her to tell you the guy she would like to fuck with. Then You can go to him and say "My wife says she would like to fuck with you! How about you? Would you like to fuck my wife?" I believe the chances are very, very good that he will answer "YES!" It is the dream of so many men to fuck a married woman, and to be invited to do so by her husband, himself, should make it even better. In my own experience, I have invited a few men to fuck my wife, and would you believe, I have never been turned down!
I think you need to talk to your wife, and find out exactly why she doesnt want to, she doesnt want to risk your marriage but maybe its more than that, she might like flirting, flashing and chatting up other men because it turns her on but all she wants is you
jburdick, Sounds like the flirting and flashing excited her. Maybe you should talk to your friend. If he's not interested, find someone else. Just take your time.
