defanitly still a virgin i say. i just started giving hand jobs and bjs to my bf for the first time in my life, and i never once thought it to b me losing my virginity, my innocence mayb lol but not my virginity! i have had ORAL sex, but to me u cant b unvirgitized by that. u gotta accutally have the penis in the vigina for that. as for gays, the rules r different lol for obvious reasons. after u have sex for the first time with the same sex, strap-on, anal, whatever it may b, u have lost ur viginity in that respect. i defanitly agree with the comment about not losing ur virginity to a tampon or anything. i stick to the thought of sex=penis + vigina