Use "Good Head". It numbs the gag reflex and it also lubes and makes the cock feel really good too. My girl was average at BJs, but after using that she was like a porn star! This stuff works. :sunglasse
Its a delicate balance because we both really enjoy rough blowjobs yet you cant help but go too deep and start bringing it up- usually it is just spit- which actually makes the blowjob better
I was with a guy who wanted to try deep throating, which I wasn't into since I have a crazy insane gag reflex. Then he told me that it was "ok" if I puked and that it would be hot. O.O Eww. So thaaaaaat didn't happen.
I picked up "Good Head" at Spencer's I believe it was or some Adult Party Store in the surrounding area. This shit works...I'm telling ya...