I got a surprise blow job in the bathroom today. My wife setting on her makeup stool in front of a big mirror. I got a perfect side view of the action. I never realized how hot it was looking with a side view. I mentioned this to my wife and she said visualization any form of sex meant nothing to her. For her it is all tactile. Our favorite intercourse position is with her butt hanging over the edge of the bed and me standing on the floor with her heals on my shoulders. I can play with her clit from this position too. Gives me a good view of all the action parts. I don't know how to do a pole on this site. But do girls like seeing what is going on? I figure most all guys like seeing judging by the number of male oriented porn sites.
I think to take a poll you can just ask people?? We've used mirrors for years. I love seeing all the action!! It's erotic and hot. I think ladies are more spooky of "seeing" things - most of the women I've known in life are "body image negative", even if they look stunning. From all I've read over the years (tons), heard with my own ears, and learned from talking to several marriage counselors, women see themselves in a bad light, body-image-wise. So some women don't want mirrors around or to see their own action. Kinda sad to me, because who's perfect anyway?? I'm not, but it won't slow me down from having FUN!!! Seeing what you're doing with your SO is an added bonus!!
Being a man, yes I love the visual as it adds to my stimulation and is so erotic...My wife is the opposite.
I wish I could convince women just how beautiful, hot, and sexy they look while they're sucking on a cock. If having a guy panting, throbbing, and aching in your mouth doesn't convince you of just how attractive, desirable, and hot you are - I don't know what will. Ladies - PLEASE …….. Do yourselves a favor and watch yourself sucking on your guys in a mirror. I asked my wife to do that some years ago and at first she would peek & look away. But as time went on, she would watch more - and I think she got to be somewhat proud of how hot she looked while sucking on me. Think of this ………. if you think watching yourself is disgusting or weird ………… know this - your guy thinks HIS watching you suck on him in a mirror is just about the hottest sight he can see. He'll be hard as a rock watching your oral actions himself, so how much more convincing do you need as you see and feel his reactions to your oral lovemaking?? So ………. try watching yourselves and enjoy the hot, sexy, temptress looking back at you in the mirror !!! That's YOU driving your guy crazy with lust. YOU are the star of his show. Even if you think it's weird watching yourself some of the time you're giving him a BJ, please understand just how HOT & SEXY you look to your guy ………… and any other guy on planet earth. That should elevate your confidence ……… if it was lacking at all !!! Best wishes for lots of hot fun.
I understand. On the other hand, I wish I could convince men just how stimulating it is for girls to just give them oral sex. I think guys are so accustomed to seeing their cock, they can't appreciate the beauty. Imagine watching and feeling something literally growing in your hand, and doing so right in front of your eyes. And how a cock changes in shape as it grows. Especially the helmet - its amazing to watch. And how the shaft is at first spongy and squeezy, but later extremely firm and almost slickery. It's hard to not want to put it in your mouth! Not because of the special prize inside that's yet to come. I mean just a desire to get they beautiful beast inside your mouth and know what it feels like to squeeze it with your lips. To know what it feels like to very gently bite it with your teeth. And then to feel with your lips the rush of fluid surging through the shaft as he begins to ejaculate. OMG why would I want to look in the mirror??
Angela in post #6 - I'm with bft4evr. I suddenly felt light-headed !! I believe that for a good number of women, they DO get turned on by orally teasing a guy's cock. They get really wet just from doing it. But wouldn't it be hot to see that throbbing, pulsing toy disappearing into your mouth?? You get to see how sexy and "evil" you ladies look as you tease and torment us orally. A way to visually take pride in your oral expertise. Some women see oral sex as degrading or too submissive. But ..... when does any woman hold more power or control over a guy than when she has his hard, aching cock in her mouth?? So why not RELISH the sight of her power??
Actually I agree with you. I do love the use of mirrors during sex. But for me I can never get too much of the sight of the make physique.
I've always enjoyed the visual of watching a woman sucking my cock. It's a "must-do" for me as it raises the stimulation level. A woman who sucks her mans cock well and often has so much control, where you gonna go? She can pleasure or hurt you in a split second. I'm not so sure enough women realize how much control and power they have when his cock's in her mouth. I'd like to think all do, but I doubt it. Anyway, every woman I've been with knew it as my reactions told her so!
I really believe it's the most powerful situation for any woman - not degrading or demeaning at all. She's in control of him 100% !! If she says to him while sucking on him, "Honey, I'd like it if you painted the kitchen for me. Would you do that??" - what's he gonna say - NO??? If there's ever a time when a guy is putty in a woman's hands - it's when she's sucking on him. From a guy's viewpoint, WE certainly don't see women who give bj's as lower class citizens, or think of them in a degrading way. Quite the opposite!!!!!!!!! Top of the class in my book.
