Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by jen12151989, Jan 29, 2005.
was or is it important to you?
No, is it to you?
It was important to me, for a long time. Now, though, it's just a burden to me ...
it was important to me at first, and then i lost it to a boy i didn't know very well, and it didn't bother me as much as i thought it would, and i don't regret it one bit.
I think it was but I was kinda out there when I lost it.
it was important. but now it just annoys me.
not too important, since i no longer have it, its more important to me to take someones everyonce in a while. make sure the ladies are gettin a good first experience.
It was important enough for me to wait until I had found someone that I cared deeply for. And so I did wait and then I met my boyfriend whom I love and I am glad I lost it to him.
nah. it was never important to me. it was just an annoying barrier to get past.
It wasn't ever really very important to me either.
oh man, you're hilarious!
well, i lost it when i was at the ripe age of 16... i never really felt guilty for 'fornicating.' i've always been entirely too hedonistic.
haha, i think I know what you mean Hikaru.
It always was, and still is.... now their is just the massive sexual frustration making things difficult and making minds (mine) wander.
Personally afraid of virgins.
So much potential stuff involved in doing anything, and I DO respect people who want to "save it for the right one". I'm not the right one for sure.
I've deflowered 2...
It's a powerful feeling
it was before I lost it and as soon as it happened I was like damn this is it? I mean don't get me wrong besides the actual act I had every girls dream of a first time but it just hurt and didn't feel as good then as everyone said it did.
Ending it seemed really important, but it was not a great introduction. Made up for it later, tho.
"De-flowering" a guy -- It's giving him a great gift, A right of passage, and there isn't one guy in the world that wouldn't love it. It's the way it was with me the first time -- Older woman who...another thread.
With girls, it can be different. Some love it. For some it's -- Well you know what I mean.
I just don't need that stuff. Let someone else have the virgins. And like I say, I actually hold them in high respect. Hey! I'm Mexican.
its important to me, and its going to stay that way until i feel comfortable enough to lose it
it's not important when i look for a guy though, as long as he's not a whore
I guess its still kind of important to me. Like, I'm not going to have my first time with some random girl at a party or something (Not that a random girl would ever want to do anything with me...).
it was important to me - very..and im glad i waited and that it was with someone special..i saw a lot of my friends waste it with jerks!
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