Virgin???

Boyfriend and I were messing around in bed but trying to keep my virginity. He was bascially boning me while wearing boxers . His penis was completely covered by his boxers and couldn't go further than an inch since he had boxers on. hope i am still a virgin.

 

A pregnant virgin is a contradiction,
But, that doesn't mean some don't come close.
What would life be without grey areas?
Sometimes, ya just got to flip a coin!

 

Watch out for that Precum

 

Their was a case some years ago where a girl became pregnant after a night with her boyfriend where they were both wearing jeans the whole time.
Very rare, but it can happen. No doubt, it was more than just precum leaking through their pants.

 

why do you give a fuck if you're still a virgin? you did what you did, who cares what the terminology for it is?

for the record, you're not a virgin though. a dick inside you wrapped in underwear is still a dick inside you, it's just a lot less fun than it could have been.

 

That's what she said. lol That dude should get a paternity test.

 

Oh just do it, what are you waiting for? Believe it or not, it does feel good...... Just be careful, make sure YOU have a condom, no sense playing with fire - - but have fun!

 

Virginity is a social construct created to control women's bodies. It is also heteronormative. It is meaningless and high problematic. So have fun. Enjoy yourself. Be safe. And don't define one type of sexual act as being inherently better, more romantic, or whatever than another. It's subjective and personal. Also, next time use a condom instead of his underwear.

 

If he didn't actually cum into you, I'd say you're still a virgin.

 

Then I'm not a virgin after all! YES!

 

A virgin is someone who hasn't had sex. From the original description, it doesn't sound like a sex act actually took place.

 

I am not a virgin, and I have never had sex with a virgin.

 

so what is your definition of a sex act if penis in vagina doesn't count?

 

Penis in vagina only counts if it concludes with sexual release, IMO. Had it continued further and culminated in the guy cumming, I would definitely have considered it sex.

 

If this boy is honest with his friends about the boxers they will tell him it does not count he did not really have sex I would bet. Women might see it differently but he poked around like a tampon. He technically got in there so yes maybe not a virgin too. It's however you want to count it.

 

so if they fucked for an hour and he just couldn't get off for whatever reason, they would still be virgins?

 

If they didn't actually finish, I have a really hard time saying they actually had sex.

 

Firstly, this definition is androcentric and sexist. Secondly, by this definition, men who suffer from anorgasmia and have never gotten off from sex would be virgins, regardless of how many times they've had sex. Your definition is highly problematic and highly illogical.

 

You are strangely equating orgasm with sex. Orgasm is a potential result of sex but it is not sex in itself. Wet dreams and masturbation can also lead to orgasm. Neither of which are sex, especially the former. Your definition is illogical.