Hi, I'm a person that is open to trying pretty much anything, but whenever i bring a conversation about using vibrators with my gf she get's angry and i'm not sure why because if i bring convo up each time she get's angry. Since i've known her for 2 years i've not seen her vibrators. Is this normal?
Funny that my wife and her girlfriend preferred vibrators and my wife still uses them every time we have sex. I am married for over 44 years and cannot remember when I last had intercourse. We kept two vibrators handy. My wife had one and our girlfriend had the other. We would all play with each other and then I would usually perform oral or kiss one of them as she used a vibrator on herself. Then it was the other girl's turn. I never met a girl who did not like vibrators and even when I was single I kept one handy. If you watch enough porn you will occasionally spot a vibrator laying on the bed. Most women do not orgasm from intercourse. They need cltorial stimulation and nothign beats a vibrator for that.
Normal for someone to get annoyed when someone else keeps bringing up,a subject that get a bad response? Yes.
I say there is not enough open two way communications. If she turns you off for something so intimate imagine how she will control you in other areas of your relationship with her. My wife and I are a senior couple but we talk about every thing and listen intently. Especially sex related topics. My wife knows I have a free sexual spirit and does not try to deny experimentation, as long as it includes her. This has worked for us for 18 years.
When we were younger, my wife came home with a new one. Her and her friend had went shopping. This was during the 80s. Now her weapon of choice is the Jack Rabbit.
