I've gone to dinner, Black Tie/formal affairs, the grocery, 6 hour flight to the East coast, hell on a couple dates with my fav plug in... & I am primarily a Top... lol I just love the sensation & the knowledge its there & no one else knows. Its like having a genital piercing, its the fact YOU know your Junk has a metal bar through it... walking up to the metal detector @ the airport. I had an MRI & X-rays a few months ago on my way to meet a play mate, I had my fav leather cock ring on... totally forgot... it showed int he X-rays & the MRI...:rofl: Doc (female) was like " is that what I think it is?" We laughed...