Very weird fantasy about my G/F. advice/opinions

So does anyone out there have the same of similar fantasy beside zzgirl's husband? I wanna know what other people have to say about this. I appreciate all the comments and opinions:sunglasse

 

im completely opposite.. i think id go psychotic and reach for my katana if another guy got involved.. although the idea of a another chick is kinda erotic/fantasy im still really wierded out by the idea of my girlfriend (of nearly 3years too) being with someone else.. shes more interested in a ffm than mmf too..

one last thing.. youve said she doesnt want to do it, and youve said that shes gonna read this. you keep going on about how much you want her to try it, so whether you mean to or not youre slowly pressuring her into something she doesnt want to do. if you care about her you really shouldnt be saying stuff like this because it probly will effect her

 

Thanks a lot, you do make a good point although she's not really gonna be readin much anymore. Also I was just trying to let her know how I felt and what fantasies I have (Which I told her in person and on here to get opinions from you guys) The reason why I told her is just in case she has actually been wanting to try it out but she's afraid to tell me or doesnt wanna cheat on me so she would get a chance. I'm just gonna say this here in a written statement for her. If she EVER in the future while we're together wants to have sex with anyone else other than me (fmm or as many M's as she wants) just let me know and bam! start bangin' :sunglasse

 

damn dude, i think you're crazy if you want your girl to get fucked as you so politely speak of it. i believe a woman who doesn't want to sleep around with other men when she is involved with a man should be commended, not persuaded into fucking around. i see your point about mentioning it to her in case she might be thinking about doing this but i wouldn't play with fire like that.

 

I see where you're coming from but I'm willing to take a chance...take a look at this: http://msnbc.msn.com/id/3969389 even though it applies mainly to middle aged people, I feel that way.

 

Since I see noone has replied anything, I'll just add that my fantasy would be to be at a nice mansion in a nice room with a nice pool table, having my girlfriend stripped down from a real small halter top and a real mini mini skirt and high heels to just her halter top, a matching thong, and her high heels, laying on the pool table waiting desperately to get fucked by all of us, me and about 5 to 10 other guys waiting to fuck her after me. Once we've all fucked her, some how tie her down and fuck her like crazy till she cant walk from all the cock.

 

what kind of an idiot wants to have his girl fucked by some guys?

 

I do, and there's no fuckin need to insult, fuck bag

 

Hey, im not the one who wants to see my girl banged by some random guy, ya fuckin putz

 

I think this is rooted in either a real or perceived inability on your part to sexually please your girlfriend. I cannot imagine why any guy, with a healthy sex drive, in his right mind, would want OTHER guys to be fucking his girlfriend or wife!!!!!

You made a freudian slip there, you said, "having her brains fucked" but not "fucked out." Yes, I think that if you push this with a girl who has expressed that she does not want to do it that it will "fuck her brains" -- and quite likely your relationship with her as well. It's not fair of you to do that to her. Many or most women, I think, want the confidence and comfort of being with their guy, and expect he will want only her. To have him want her to have other guys could make her fear that you might want her to want you to do other women. Look, she just may not be into the same things you're into, period. You said that she's told you as much. You need to do some introspection and figure out why you would want something so counterintuitive as having your girlfriend fuck other guys. It is not normal to most women to want to be involved in that, so don't push it.

-Jeffrey

 

bottom line: shes said she doesnt want to do it, but you continue to push the fantasy. if you respected and loved her at all youd (AT LEAST TRY) to put it aside for her feelings.

 

Dude, sorry if this sounds insulting, but what the hey...

I think the best thing that could happen to your girlfriend would be if this fantasy thing of yours pushed her away and caused her to drop you.

You want stuff "for her" that is really for you and you alone -- it is super selfish of you, and dangerous and risky for her. I don't think you have a moment's thought for either what she wants, or what is best for her. It's all about you.

You want her to be a stripper. You want her to do other guys, possibly even two or more at a time.Fine, as a fantasy. But to attempt to make it happen is manipulative, controlling, egomaniacal and self-centered.

You admit to wanting to be controlling, etc. Why should a girl want that? Why should a girl want a guy who thinks of nothing but his own gratification, through essentially whoring her out?

The things you want of your girlfriend are bad for her; one must hope she realizes this before she gets used by you. The dangers of abuse, disease, and loss of dignity and self esteem for her are very real.

-Jeffrey

 

Holy fucking shit, you WANT her to fuck other guys, but then if she decided if she liked one of them more than she liked you, SHE would be the one with something wrong with her? You gotta be fuckin' kidding me. Dude, you are whacked. And like someone else already said, you don't love this girl.

Best thing that could happen would be she dumps your ass, finds a guy who really cares about her and loves her, and you do some growing up and self-examination.

-Jeffrey

 

Okay, so it's coming clear...

You want to date a SLUT, and you're currently apparently NOT hooked up with one -- in fact your current girlfriend seems to lean toward monogamy.

Leave the decent girl to a decent guy and go find yourself a slut. Chances are you'll find one easily in like a local bar or something. And she'll fuck other guys for you -- probably more than you'll wish for, and many without ever mentioning to you; she'll also bring some nice diseases to rot your cock off; do drugs or alcohol in serious excess; get arrested now and then, along with you, for "domestic" altercations that she initiates, or maybe public outbursts or drunkenness, DUI, etc...

Go date your slut -- find a natural-born one, though. Don't try to turn a decent girl into a slut. I hope she does read this. She should know she can rise above you.

-Jeffrey

 

Look, I'm confident and have a healthy sex drive and I am able to please my girl more than 110%. Now just because I said I wanted her to fuck some other guy(s) I'm not saying I want her becoming a complete a total slut. As you also said that what kinda guy would want their girlfriend to do that? ....take a look at this link, read it, scroll down and read the next page and then ask that question again.

 

http://www.theinternetcollege.org/46b.htm

 

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i think we're thinking...

 

You say you don't want her to become a complete slut, but what you're describing is her being exactly that. Fucking you and 5-10 guys?! What do you call that?

I stand by everything I said, particularly the part about you being blindly self-centered, and wanting all for you and not caring that your girlfriend is a real person with actual feelings, desires, and most important to this situation -- boundaries!

What I see in your attitude toward her is what I see happening in myself when I jerk off to a girl in a video or magazine... she's objectified for the purposes of getting you off. That's healthy for a jerkoff fantasy, but not for a real person you know and relate with.

-Jeffrey

 

exactly what I was going to say..

Would it be okay if your girlfriend fucked your brother and you caught them doing it? That is, if you have a brother..

Actually, the other girl's only prob with that was that she should've been asked to join in..

 

Also, I think you that you should feel VERY lucky that you've got a girl who wants to be monogamus with you even when presented with teh opportunity to cheat.

Evolutionary, females are actually very inclined to cheat but in a different way than men. I'm saying this because my boyfriend taught a class about human instinct. If it wasn't for cultural and morals guarding us, we would be sleeping with so many other partners just as our primitive counterparts in the animal kingdom.

What?? That if she dumps you for another guy she is not worth it? If she does, she is worth so MUCH more!! Because she has the ability to want something better and go for it..