I agree! I highly doubt it’s you. I haven’t been with a whole lot of woman but I have never thought a woman wasn’t tight enough. Might not have anything to do with tightness and all to do with how wet you get. I have been with woman who get pretty wet and the effects the amount of friction I need to have in order to have an orgasm. I think he’s having a sensitivity issue and has a hard time reaching orgasm and blames you. Probably too much porn or jacking off.
Maybe, but I doubt it. Masturbation and sex are not always directly related. Masturbation is about sensation, primal pleasure, immediacy, and opportunity. Sex is about love and connection - and if you're lucky, pleasure for you both.. Porn gives men unreal expectations of sex and he may be caught in a rut of what he needs to be satisfied. So, find what works to keep him away from his hand. Maybe he is the one that needs more foreplay to get him turned on to finish with sex. Satisfying sex for you both does not have to always be traditional nor does it always work 100% - again, expectations. Find a way to be intimate that keeps your connection - and if that means I do you and you do me, so what, it's fun, intimate and you remain connected.
He doesn’t need it. I mean foreplay and so on, he can start sex just immediately because he wanted and it must happen. We have really bad sex these days, I don’t want it even because I’m afraid that it will spoil our relationships even worse. Today he told me that this stuff makes him upset so much so he thinks these procedures I’m going to do won’t help and we would anyway break up. Because he got insecurities on this spot he is worried that his penis is small (18 sm in length and 4 or almost 5 sm in diameter) , so he doesn’t want to live with these problems anymore but he KINDA loves me so he can’t do it right away. I feel so used… I did abortion last year in summer because of him, he missed the time to pull his penis out of me, I’m guilty too, than it happened again 3 months after, why? I just can’t understand why I’m here with the person that seems to not care about me at all and not love me sincerely only caring about sex which he says is the most important in his life.
Oh my. It's probably time to find someone more compatible with fewer issues, it's certainly not going to change or get better. His issue with penis size shows what unreal expectations porn gives him, where average is far smaller than 18cm. It doesn't seem to me through our limited exchange here that you are getting a whole lot out of this relationship. He doesn't respect you, he doesn't support you, getting pregnant twice seems to say he does not care much about the the results of his actions. You're too young to have all this trouble with sex - if you can't make this work simply for sex, how is everything else going to work ?
Unlike a penis, there seems to be too many variables with the vagina to ascertain. Not as many studies either, and their size varies to quite a degree depending on mood, arousal, time of month, the way the stars are aligning at that moment, etc. As to whether or not women obsess over their vaginas as much as men do over their penises, as others have mentioned, no, that doesn't seem to be the case. To a huge degree, I think we can blame porn for conditioning people's minds on penis size, followed very closely with the Internet. I'm betting if would be similar though if, instead of actresses talking about big penises, the actors talked about the tightness of vaginas. Doesn't happen though. It's also much easier to pick on penises since they are external with size and shape being so obvious.
Everyone as we all know have different vaginal sizes and the key is knowing how to please your partner. My fwb has a very large vagina which i can fist and she loves. My fb has a tight vagina although both have had dozens of partners all shapes and sizes. My wife is tight.
My wife has large labia minora, and she would often tell people she had a big pussy. But in fact she was very tight.
There are different sizes in women pussy,tits ass. Just like men penis,short,long,big,huge. But the thing is this, it is how you use your tools to make it work for you. Alot of guy say they have a huge penis,so what! A women can have a baby ,bigger than any penis she will ever fuck. So big or small just use it right. And enjoy sex.
Wow all these Male Experts who seemingly know so much about their woman's vagina and whats best for them! I am just happy to stick it in and cum. I have never really given much thought in comparing my women's hot box and the only real difference I have noticed would be how wet they became and that was easily remedied by giving more foreplay and oral, if needed. What cums naturally is quite simple and most differences in the female anatomy are a pleasure to overcome. I will add that I have noticed that quite a few women are able to orgasm by playing with their tits, either fondling or orally and fanny size played no part in that!
In my opinion every woman has to be pleasured as they would like. For example my wife cant be fisted and i can insert no more than two fingers in her. My fwb can be fisted and enjoys anal as i put a vibrator in her pussy. She can take a major pounding and is wet all the time. My fb although she has had many cocks, is tighter and only two fingers but enjoys a dildo while giving me a blowjob as we 69. I can also make her cum by playing and sucking on her nipples.
The "problem" isn't a problem at all, but a natural byproduct of being more relaxed with your guy and trusting him more. It's ironic what feels better for the woman can end up feeling worse for the guy
