I have a specific question basically I've been with one guy for a very long time and he's the only one i've ever given a blow job too so I only know what he likes. I'd use my mouth to suck as far as I could go and use my hand for the rest of it. He liked when I had a tight grip and the skin would move with my hand movements. It wasn't like a light/soft stroke or anything if you get what I mean. I'm seeing someone new and I'm wondering if most guys prefer that? He's also uncircumcised which I'm not used to, is there anything I'd do differently with that?
I am uncircumsized..and I like the 'no hands' approach..(I am 8 inches).best to ask..him..all guys are different I find..some guys like a no hands...some like you to jerk him off into your mouth..some (like me) like the swirling of the tongue on the head..(I find that because I am uncircumcised..my head is VERY! sensitive to sucking and swirling)..but ask him...or try different things, and watch his moans..if he puts his hands on your head, while you are sucking..you are hitting one of the 'sweet spots'..lol...good luck!! And..my foreskin disappears when I am hard..no difference..to sucking an uncircumcised cock..
Ask your friend to show you exactly how he would like it by giving you a BJ demonstration on one of your fingers. Works great for me
I like when my girl uses her hand but I prefer a loose grip so her hand glides easily and simply follows her mouth with a little twist of the wrist at the same time.
Most guys have never given a blow job. They are in the best position to say "Yes that's good" or "Not quite right", but they would be the last person to demonstrate good technique. If your man hasn't given many blow jobs, asking for a demonstration is asking for instruction from a rookie. More effective would be try this, "Is it good", try that, "better or worse?". (Kind of like getting fitted for glasses) But I bet that celticman4's friend is getting off on pretending.
Different guys are going to like different things! You should be able to tell by his reaction what is working for him. Varity is always a good thing as well. I love it when my lady jerks me with her hand when my cock is in her mouth. She doesn't have great gag reflexes so can't get very far down with just her mouth so the hand is a great help in making it feel even better. It is also great without though as well when she is working her tongue on the bottom of my shaft or around my head. There really is no wrong way to go about it and most guys are just happy to have you put the effort in. Make sure he returns the favour to you.
Just have fun. If you're really enthusiastic, and pay attention to how his body responds to different things you try, take any requests he makes (as long as you're comfortable with them) and just approach it like a game, sure he'll have a great time. Relax. One thing that has sometimes gone over very well for me with intact dudes is to use one hand to prevent the foreskin from retracting fully, and if there is enough skin, to use my lips to pull the prepuce up over the meatus and hold it there, flicking inside with my tongue, sometimes changing the pressure from my lips to sort of trap my wiggling tongue inside the foreskin, and then using my lips to push the foreskin all the way back down the shaft, releasing my hand once my hand gets in the way. My current playmate likes a blow-jay or a handie so hard and rough I assume it hurts. I was VERY nervous as he encouraged me to be gruffer and rougher at first, but little by little, taking him at is word every time he grunted "Harder, Baby!" I learned his desires. Most of my partners wanted me to stroke their shafts, or slide their foreskins up and down with my hand, gently-but-firmly twisting as I sucked them off. So, that became kind of instinctive for me, and informs most of my oral work. Still, there have been those who pushed my hand away every time I touched their penises, or who whispered their urgent reminders, "No hands." The best part about playing with someone new, to me anyway, is figuring them out, and letting them learn ly body too. Good luck. Let us know how it goes?
