Using sex personals

You crazy lone wolf you

 

You can, and will judge me for this, but I am being honest. I am considering finding someone for sex. I am married with children, and I love my husband however for many, personal reasons I want to meet someone for casual, no strings sex. However, I don't want to meet any weirdos. Looks are somewhat important, you have to have chemistry. I just want to find a nice, reasonable looking bloke who is wanting to have a very casual sex relationship. Is it at all possible?

 

It is possible, but a lot of what I've been encountering online is that the women out there in that kind of marital situation - very much like mine, have a big trust issue with potential partners. Moreso than men care about. However when it comes to male on male personals, it seems like guys are the "let's get down to business" type that tries to avoid the "honeymoon period"... Too bad most women aren't like that.

 

I want the let's just get down to business, but I don't want any weirdos, or anyone who as any STD's. Trust is an issue in that I do not want any kind of emotional connection, so I need to trust that the guy will stay away from getting emotionally involved with me.

 

Hi angelina, I was in the same situation as you: married, kids but needing some different sex. I met several women overa year or two and had the best sex of my life (and a few didters, lol) but be warned itsquite addictive and I only stopped when I was found out. I met some women only once, but others a lot more. The problem is that if the sexis good you want to meet again for more and that s where the danger of emotional attachment come in. I don't think I. Did get too emotionally involved but I did find it hard to stop and needed the jolt of being found out to stop. (And tbh do still miss it, though sex at home now has improved) just be aware that you re unlikely to do it only once. I used lycos. Co. Uk but they seem to have free chat rooms in most countries. Good luck!
P. S.
Met a gorgeous girl from adelaide and finally we met in the flesh when I was there on business last year. That was memorable

 

I can't speak for everyone of course, but my own personal experiences w/ meeting people via Internet forums as well as magazine ads have been largely positive. I've met several great looking females and some VERY adventurous gay/bi guys. For some reason, I just can't meet people at parties, clubs, work, etc. (i.e., face to face) but when I first 'meet' them via a letter or email then meet them in person at a later date, everything just seems to click. I strongly recommend it!