Used to like vaginas, but not so much now.

This is a story about my once-love for vaginas, and that falling out of love. I don’t really understand it. I’m not concerned or anything, just curious on opinions.

When I started having sex in my early 20’s (late bloomer I guess) I was automatically drawn to vaginas, and I loved eating girls out. I did it often, and would start in on it without even thinking about it (as in, I would get a girl naked and that’s the first thing I’d go to). At some point, it’s like a switch flipped; I stopped liking them. When I try to force myself to eat out girls I date now, I’m just not a fan of any aspect of it- the taste, smell, feel, whatever.

If I think harder, I can start to analyze it- in my early 20s, I dated some very attractive, and fit, girls who also were completely shaven/waxed. I then entered a long term relationship with a girl who didn’t like to be eaten out; but we had an awkward sexual relationship from the start, and as I recall, I never really tried to eat her out anyway. At first she was moderately attractive, but over time, I have to say, she became (in my opinion) much more attractive through a combination of things (her body, already fit, got more slender; her hip haircut; her face seemed to change and get more attractive, etc). Note that she fully waxed.

Anyway we broke up, and I began a long succession of dating girls met online through my late 20s. My standards were always high for physical attractiveness; but I do remember this one girl who managed to gain my attention; she was below my regular standards, and when we began to have sex she “pushed” me to eat her out; but her vagina was 1. Unshaven, 2. Smelled bad. My mind goes back to this particular time, of all the (hot) girls I’ve been with, and I wonder if it changed my view of vaginas. I don’t really remember after that if I continued to regularly go down on girls; it’s kind of a haze.

As I’m now in my late 30s, still hooking up with extremely attractive girls (including girls in their early 20s), I’m forced to wonder; what happened to that time I loved eating out girls? All I can think of is that 1. I was spoiled with the fact all my girls from that time were cleanly waxed and hygienic, and/or 2. My long term girlfriend mentally ruined it for me (though I didn’t realize it at the time) and/or 3. That girl I dated after her with the hairy, foul vagina ruined it/cemented the process of ruining it that was already taking place.

so you may have noticed a trend or two: I like hairless genitalia (in fact I don’t want any hair on a woman under her eyebrows), and my standards for physical attraction take precedence over almost anything else, or at least they usually have when dating. Mostly, I’ve been (continue to be) very lucky in this regard.

I’ve tried to give some background; it’s possible lots of other dates figured in at times that I’m
not thinking about; I wonder as well if an accumulation of negative experiences flipped that switch off.

Any thoughts?

 

Enjoy your seductiveness while you can. Before you know it, you will be 50 and then 70. As for your loss of taste for pussy, our tastes change as we age. Maybe the less hygienic woman turned you off. It has been my experience that proper foreplay freshens the most stale pussy and if not, there is always showering together. Hell, after a day of living your balls might not be appealing for her, so a shower is always a good start.

Or it could be in your head. Think back on what you liked about eating pussy when you were younger and see what changed. Personally, I like some hair on a pussy. It seems more natural than shaved bald.

 

I used to love every thing Vagina ! My wife had a hysterectamy(spelling) and gave up on sex so i started watching porn on net ! Bi-curiousity took over and i started watching men more ! Now i watch bi and gay exclusively ! Love seeing smaller cut cocks being used (CBPlay) and most interesting now to me is mens assholes I ihave been doing a lot of butthole play as in large dildos and butt plugs ! I keep my manhole shaved smooth and love watching as i slide plugs in and out of my bald hole ! I fantasize now about licking and sucking on an other guys asshole which looks exzactly like mine, clean and smooth ! Love it when ,after a play session , my manhole lips are loose.swollen and protruding ! Sorry for getting so far off topic but im hooked on guys genitals now !

 

First off I love this title! I wish more people would describe their sexual preferences this way! Labels should not be used and yes Some peoples preferences do change over time. Enjoy it explore and you will be much happier! Happy orgasms!

 

I'm similar..I Much Prefer a hard dick to a vagina anyday.

 

Out of necessity, with no sex I consider myself bi curious, and I've always loved a hard cock, however a hot vagina is still as sexy to me, depending on how sexy the woman is. Openly sexual, open vag, love it.

 

I used to dive in to any pussy that was spread before me. That was after learning from my mentor how a pussy works. Once I got the hang of it I loved eating and sucking all parts of the vulva including tonguing deep inside. Then I married and enjoyed the same pussy over and over. I couldn't get enough for many years. When I branched out after turning 60 I began to wonder how each lover took care of the one thing that I planted my face into. I started to watch myself and became a little more selective. Now I don't jump at the chance to savor a pussy at first sight. In fact I have abstained from eating her out sometimes but after a while as we are laying there the urge really builds. It's tough to not put my face down there and sometimes I don't. Otherwise I really like vaginas and am real happy when my cock gets to slide in as deep as it can go. Now here's a real kicker. Sometimes I can't help myself and after I finish I slide down and clean up my cream pie. Ya know? The addiction to pussy is a tough one to overcome.