Ok so I had a fight with my best friend from hs we were so close and I went to her with like everything but now we don't talk and never will again and I have no one to vent to or just kv it up my thoughts at. I feel lost and I dunno what to do now when I have something I want to share.
Lmao yeah I just worry I'm going to talk about something that happened and the person it happened with will be on here lol
When my brother-in-law was visiting out here about 2 months ago, I found myself talking to him and the brother just like they were, oh...normal people, perhaps interested in my life or thoughts or what-have-you. I know I AM interested in hearing what they are going through, thinking, etc. My BIL told me later that my brother didn't like listening to me - or anyone much - and talking about my thoughts or what I was going through was what "my forum (here) was for". lol They don't know the name of this place, just that a "forum I like and go to" exists. If I thought they would ever come here, I'd be in trouble.
I grew apart from many of my friends. I see 'em on Facebook sometimes. No real loss and I'm sure they say the same about me rofl. I still have one high school friend that I see frequently, we've been good mates since grade 3 though.
Dark sugar....I don't know how old you are but my experience has been this....I have a few friends who I have been friends with for most of my life. I've had a few great friends who I thought would be life-long friends and it only lasted a few years. I've met some great people who never really became friends with me. And today, I met a very cool friend of a friend who i'm sure will become a good friend of mine. My point is that we just never know who will become real friends with us. Sometimes people are just friends for a while and that's ok because it gives us time to spend with other people and make friends.
I feel like I go through so much of my life alone and it was nice to feel like I had someone with me and now that's gone
I get what you're saying but it doesn't have to be that way. I actually like being by myself but there are plenty of people in this world. My mom just talked to me about this tonight and I told her the same thing.
No I enjoy being by myself and I don't like people being around me all the time but once in a while it's nice to have someone to talk to about things that happen. Like to day something happened that I would've told her about right away and I couldn't and I thought gee this sucks
I don't like being around very many people but every once in a while I'm surprised by what a good time I have.
Yeah I guess I need to go make a new friend lol it will just take some time I guess. Enough about me tho anyone else got a similar story?
Well she screwed up and started keeping shit from me and it got like ridiculous so I just said well if u don't want to share ur life with me u don't have to go be free and so she did
I dont talk to any of my close friends that i went to school with. Just one that i worked with when i was in school. DS you should go to a dead dive bar. Thats what bartenders are for.
I have a friend that I have known since we were 16 years old (almost 20 years now, shit I'm old). It sounds like her and I have a relationship like you and your friend. We were close for many years. Best friends and did everything together. Things happen. She likes to tell lies and it got the point that I didn't want to deal with it anymore so I basically cut her out of my life. We didn't really have a fight. We just stopped talking for a few years. Although I have other really close friends I found myself missing her. I would have a memory that we shared and I wanted to call or text her so badly but I was too stubborn. I missed sharing fun memories and stories with her that only the 2 of us would understand. I felt lost, like something was missing. Finally I just sent her a text "Hey, remember that time..." and went into a story. She responded with another funny story. After a few years of not speaking we are finally rebuilding our friendship through our history. If you miss your friend then you should try to make things right with her. If you don't feel like her friendship is worth it then you should look for a new friend. Sometimes we have to swallow our pride. Do what feels right. If you miss her then call her. Friends don't have to share every part of their lives with each other. You just have to accept her for who and what she is. If there are things she wants to keep private then you should respect that.
