Unsure What Category I Fall Into?

Hi all you lovely people This is my first post and in all honesty, my first time posting on any forum ever! I came here looking for some advice about my sexuality.

I want to start by saying that I in no way mean to "categorize" sexuality into neat little boxes, I know its not that black and white for everyone. But for my own peace of mind I am curious as to what other people would classify me as.

I am a 20 year old female who identifies as female. Growing up I always thought of myself as straight (I would picture myself married to a man and had boyfriends). But at around age 14 I found myself also being sexually attracted to women. I thought I must be bi and began experimenting with girls, in the last few years or so I have began to analyse my past relationships (with both women and men) and realized that I do not even look at gender in regard to attraction. I also am attracted to androgynous and trans people, yet have never been in a relationship with one. As shallow as it sounds I would say that I am drawn to attractive people regardless of their gender identity.

But this then puts me in a very confused state, as it doesn't seem that I fit in anywhere? Is there a type of sexuality which disregards gender in attraction? Is that a type of bisexuality?

Thanks very much for any advice you can give.

xxx

 

If you don't know, then maybe you could identify your sexual preference as 'unknown"?

 

Could be as simple as sapiosexual. This is something I've been noticing about myself too though I'm much more attracted to females and take the lesbian "category" I don't find it at all impossible to find attraction in a guy either. But sapiosexual isn't attracted to either, they're attracted to the individualism and intellect, the smarts, the not so smarts.. About a person.

When I look at how I ended up with females it's easy to understand that I fell in love with my partner because we were such close friends. And I ended up falling in love with her, not the looks and not the gender but the person. Attraction to females and expressing sexuality with them came naturally after.

 

Theres also Tapiosexual

Attraction only to tapio pudding

 

maybe you'd want to put yourself in the box of pansexual

 

Billy Rose Is Offline And Has Made No Replies......Another Day......Another One Post Wonder.

But What Really Amazes Me Is Why So Many Of You Can't See That......

Some Peeps Will Respond To Anything.....



Cheers Glen.

 

so what your saying GlenGlen is that you should only reply to a post if the OP is online? makes no sense in my world.
the fact that OP made the post today and then logged out and possibly hasent logged in again yet to check up on their thread, doesn't mean a damn thing.

But hey if you don't like people being active then fair enough.

 

What I'm Saying Is, The "OP" Is Yet Another "TROLL",

I Would Have Thought That Was Obvious, Even To You.....



Cheers Glen.

 

Nah I can't see TROLLS I sleep to little and and live in a forrest so the TROLLS can hide pretty damn good

 

IDIOT...... :tumbleweed:



Cheers Glen.

 

Nah NOT an IDIOT just a JOKE today tomorrow I'll be an IDIOT

 

Methinks I Missed Your Joke..... But In My Defense, You Are Daneish Extraction...

That Explains Everything...... :daisy:



Cheers Glen.

 

Methinks I Missed Your Joke..... But In My Defense, You Are Daneish Extraction...

That Explains Everything...... :daisy:



Cheers Glen.

 

My Post Was So Good "Hip Forums" Posted It Twice...... :rockon:



Cheers Glen.

 

Homo sapiens.

 

You probably missed my joke GlenGlen cause they rarely makes any sense exept in my twisted mind, and well as you pointed out I am danishand thats why I fear americans cause they want to eat me cause they think i'm a huge piece of pastery roflolsmk

 

Wow this certainly escalated quickly :unsure: I am definitely not a troll, just got round to logging back on now, didn't mean to offend anyone.

I have just looked at the definitions of both pansexuality and sapiosexuality, and honestly both of those terms seem relevant to me, pansexual perhaps more. I do feel like I need to experience more in terms of sexuality before I decide to label myself, and maybe I never will!! Who needs labels anyway. Thanks for the help guys!

...Also, I do love tapioca pudding

 

The definition of pansexual means you are attracted to everything regardless, basically means you'd fuck anything

Of course, never met anyone that called themsleves pansexual that was just as keen on 90 yr olds as they are as keen on anyone else, usually guys saying that to try impress a 20 something chic, or a chic saying that who is half way through an arts degree

 

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Hi lion.