I hate unrequited love because I am obsessed with a married woman who does not care to hear or see me and who I know only through conversation, no intimacy or dating. She is happily married ,probably. Yet I cannot get her out of my mind and I have known her for about ten years. I know there is no chance. Never was. I am single myself...and I get tongue-tied when I am near her. To quote a Dickie Betts song "there is nothing you can say and nothing you can do when you love someone and they don't love you!" What say you guys? Can you relate to this? I don't think she would even read a letter I wrote. Maybe an email.
I don't think you should insinuate yourself into anothers marriage. The problem is in YOUR mind--not hers. Just move on to a realistic relationship with someone that will or might be open to it.