Unable to maintain and erection and get ejaculation

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by jamesfunny, Mar 19, 2018.

  1. jamesfunny

    jamesfunny Members

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    Hi,

    I am a 29 year old male. I am unable to maintain an erection(some times I dont get erections also) and get ejaculation during sex with my wife. When I consulted a Urologist , he told me that my Testosterone levels were normal and the blood flow to my penis was also normal. I suffer from depression. But, What I observed was that I get erections and ejaculation when I watch sex movies. I married my wife without much interest in her. It was an arranged marriage. When I look at other girls I am able to get erections. Even if I imagine some other girl in my mind I am able to get erections. My wife keeps blackmailing me that she will divorce me if I don't make her pregnant. I was married to her for 2 years. I dont know how does a women become pregnant. What I just know is that I need to ejaculate in the vagina. Can you please provide me some advice to my problem and what steps I need to take to fix this. Thanks in advance
     
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  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you're probably watching too many sex movies and having too little actual sex. seriously, that is known to cause ED.
     
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    you take medications for depression? . stop, they make your dick limp and you more depressed because you have a limp dick..
     
  4. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    I can only go by personal experience. And agree with the squirrel. When I had kidney stones the doc gave me pills to pass them more quickly.
    I would rather have an occasional stone than be on those pills permanently. After 2 weeks I was horny enough to work one off but couldn't get an erection. I worked that limp rope enough to finish but there was no orgasm and no ejaculation just a numbed afterglow to let me know I was done.
    That's why they tell you to not do drugs. Except viagra....do that one.
     
  5. Idlewild

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    Maybe you're suffering from performance anxiety.
     
  6. jamesfunny

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    Yes I take medicines for depression
     
  7. Cosmic wonderland

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    I highly recommend talking to your doc. Maybe he can switch you to a different medication that your body will tolerate better.
     
  8. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    Talk to your wife about it.
    Sounds to me like you have performance anxiety. It is more common than you think. Double that with the medication you are taking and there you go.
    Yuo both should read about it. It is important for her to know that she is not the problem, nor are you any less attracted to her.
    It will take time, but you CAN get past this. But the key thing here is talking openly about it with your wife. That will do more for you than anything else.
     
  9. SSJROMANCE

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    Take a 100MG of Viagra and call me in the morning.
     
  10. Alanaw

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  11. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I hate it when I can't maintain end erections. Just as bad as finish starting end orgasms. Lol.
     
  12. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I say get a divorce. It sounds like you married a wrong girl. You can be with someone who can get your dick hard as well as connect well with you emotionally, and your wife can find someone who will get her pregnant. It's a win-win situation.
     

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