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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by nesta, Apr 8, 2005.

  1. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    yea, it generally is.

    The problem of written words.

    Glad that we agree :D
     
  2. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Done and done!

    *Sarcasm* And you're awfully nice to have pointed this out to me, friend. I shall be forever in your debt! */sarcasm*
     
  3. seamonster66

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    excellent, you should always follow my lead by doing exactly as I do ;)


    ;) is my chosen method of noting sarcasm
     
  4. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    smileys piss me off.

    That is all.
     
  5. seamonster66

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    hey i hear you, but until you've cemented your reputation as being chronically sarcastic, it is sometimes the best option....but even if your sarcasm is taken the wrong way, you at least get a good fight out of it
     
  6. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Oh I'm very good at starting fights...

    like this?

    He's such a wanker...

    BTW, what was this thread about before we hijacked it?
     
  7. seamonster66

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    its about nesta's problems finding a girl, which is hard to comprehend because he's cool and good looking as well as having gone to my hideous high school over a decade after me and surviving unscarred.

    ha nice link, that guy was asking for it...I say shoot him and then make it look like a suicide (virtually speaking of course)
     
  8. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    oh, right.

    I've stared down hardened North Korean guard troops who didn't want to kill me as much as I want to kill him... and I am a proud pacifist...
     
  9. nesta

    nesta Banned

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    come on, we all know there's no such thing as North Korea.
     
  10. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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    But your not funnylooking or anything...wonder why your havi g girl problems....maybe you should move where the girls have more sense to them
     
  11. luv

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    You never find when you're looking, in my experience. It's probably something about the way you behave when you are trying too hard. I don't have any good advice to offer, but to be yourself and wait till it happens. *hugs*
     
  12. shroomzzz

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    I think for some people the timing is just off when it comes to meeting people. It's tough to really say what the issue is. I'm in a pretty similar boat, it's not that I'm obese or disfigured, (even though I even see some disfigured obese guys with girls) I just don't seem to meet any single girls. "They" say that a good percentage of people meet someone thru mutual friends or in a work environment. Well, there are no single girls around my age at work and none of my friends have any single friends, even the guys with wives. So, I also signed up for a online personals thing, but I just can't seem to bring myself to email anyone. It;s not like I'm afraid to talk to women or anything, but it just feels weird doing it over some site.

    On a side note, you are correct. Every time you start feeling like you expect to get a "no", you are more likely to get one. Our thoughts do play a role in our day to day lives, even changing our reality around us. That's why confidence is so alluring. But, how do you make yourself confident about something like that, when you hear mostly "no"s? Good question, indeed. I hear meditation does wonders.

    Have a good one
     
  13. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Yup, I've been there.

    And almost everyone here is correct, you're giving up too easily. I was a virgin until I was 21, mostly because I was too shy to speak to women but also because I didn't know how to interact with women and had no clue what sex was. I had girls throwing themselves at me and we'd make out and stuff but I didn't know what to do beyond that. Finally one girl just tore my pants off and hopped on. After that, it was happy hunting :)
     

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