Two female friends who have questioned their romantic feelings for eachother !?

So basically I have known my female friend for just over a year now, we met at work. About 3 months ago now, I confessed to her that I think I'm starting to like her more then a friend. I did this through text message, she replied saying that she had thought about it herself and had also questioned her own feelings towards me. She said that she feels 100% comfortable with me, more so then her oldest friends she has know for years and years but she doesn't think it goes further.. We did met up for a drink to discuss it further, i was doing most of the talking and I said to her that I do like her..

She didn't really say much, however she did say there is something that makes me feel so comfortable with you. When she comes to my house and hangs out for the day, we sit very closely together, are legs are on eachothers and my hands rest on her legs.we are tactile with eachother, and neither of us move away or shift our bodies to create space so to me that indicates that we are happy-comfotable with eachother. I also gave her a foot massage aswell?

Is this normal or am I thinking that this is what couples do? Or am I over thinking the situation ? Everything just feels so comfortable and natural with her, and she is the only female I have ever questioned my feelings for? I have alwaysassumed I was straight as I have only ever dated men previously.

If we have both questioned our feelings for eachtoher then their must be something more in it then friendship?

I personally think my friend is scared to explore or go further with me? As she hasn't done anything like that before.. please someone help and give advice on this situation.

 

seems like she may have said how she feels

 

Sound svery similar to how I met my wife, kind of, maybe? I met her in highschool and we were friends but I did get the feeling she likes me more than a friend and overtime it became evident that I felt the same way toward her. Until that point I was only 13/14 hadnt dated a boy and never thought of questioning a sexuality. Before long we were a couple, it just happened naturally, we never asked each other out we were just comfortable with one another, we just fell into a relationship.

Fast forward 18 years - now we are almost 1 year happily married with the rest of our lives to spend to together.

 

Did you sense any clues or was there any hints to suggest that she liked you more then a friend?

What I describe above about being comfortable-tactile with eachother would you be like that with a friend? I'm not sure if I'm over thinking into the situation or thinking that friends can be like that too? She is the only female friend that I'm touchy-comfortable with not just physically and emotionally too.

I don't want to put pressure on her, as she knows how I feel about her i told her that i liked her more then a friend. And even now to this day when we hang out or she comes to my house we act the same, sitting closly, touchy-feely with eachother although she said she doesn't have anymore feelings than friends apparently so I'm not sure what to think?

 

I would check first and be sure that she really is into you LIKE THAT. If so, I say go for it

 

Nothing like fuckin’ a colleague, I tell ya wut.

 

Ahhh, crushing on a straight girl

What could go wrong?