Turning points in your marraige

Has anything happened in your sex life, that changed things forever? My wife had told me that befor we were married, that I had gone down on her ,after another man recently came in her and didn't know it and enjoyed it. She had sucked my cock, about an hour after I fucked another woman. It happened and it was no big deal then, so why should it be now? We moved on and enjoyed loosing hangups about the past. After that conversation, our sex life changed for the better.

 

Yes, menopause. And not for the better.

 

It can get better with some , not therapy, but the realization that we husbands are alive and still have needs and desires. If its masturbation or a safe bi encounter, it gets the job done and everybody is happy.

 

Safe bi/gay encounters and masturbation are the only ways it gets better for me. Any discussion I have with the wife on this falls on def ears.

 

I know what you mean that’s why I’m divorced and now I can have sex and masturbate with men and women or both at the same time

 

Does she even care what you do to survive sexually. My wife is done with sex. I get the occasional pegging and have a friend who I will be seeing soon and over the summer but it certainly isn't enough to satisfy my needs, sexually or emotionally.
I know women my age who are still into sexual fun, but I'm not allowed to go there. My wife doesn't care if my friend and I do whatever, but women are forbidden His wife is with the program too and is the one who came right out and said we should just suck each others cocks and get it over with , so we won't pester them for sex that they don't want. It sure beat jerking off for the rest of my life. What I didn't understand was why they wanted to watch.

 

She had said that she doesn’t want to know. So I take her at her word, I give no indication of what I do. She would be hurt if she did know. It’s not a goal of mine to punish her for not wanting sex. So I have no intention of having her find out how I satisfy my needs sexually.

 

Wife didn't want to know,didn't want anyone else to know and #1 "Don't bring anything home"
Her tune changed moderately when she thought she found the answer for my sexual frustration and that was with our old gay friend.

 

A full hysterectomy 25 years ago, poor follow up and little to no HRT, did it. Then what followed was depression, wanting to care for her, and my constant ly wanting sexual urges filled. I had a psychologist tell me to just have affairs, so I did. What followed after that disaster was being sucked off by a bi guy, and lo and behold she approved.