Women mostly respond the same way when their partner has a "slow hand." I start at my woman's ears which I gently nibble. I just brush my lips across hers then move to her throat & neck laying butterfly kisses on her skin. Next to her breasts, never once using my hands, I softly kiss and tease her nipples with my tongue. I move my head to her belly and once again kiss her skin before concentrating my mouth to her clit, licking and sucking it. I give this area of her body the most attention, still never once using my hands, just my lips and tongue. Then and only when she is ready do we make love.