During the period that I was on emergency callout for the electricity company, I got a 3am call to a flat like that and it was not just pee. It was one of the most vile things that I have ever seen, especially having to check the sockets in the bedroom before restoring the power.
As she looks down at you, she says, “Pull it off you say........” It was right then you realised, you fucked up.
When I sense crazy in someone's eyes or mannerisms. I asked a girl on a date. She worked in the office next door to mine. I had about 20 people in my office. I went to her house had a beer and sensed that I should leave. About 3 days later she walked into my office and stood in front of my desk and in a loud voice said, "So what the fuck is wrong with me? Why didn't you call me?" OMG that is fucking crazy personified. I don't even remember how I responded. I am glad there were a bunch of cops in the office at that time, and a bunch of witnesses.
Maybe you should have written her a note the next day saying you did not feel comfortable in her company and you would not be calling her again.
My 3 proper long term partners started un the friends zone and I thought it would never happen with all 3 but somehow eventually did. Took about 4 months with 1st and 3rd and almost a year with 2nd. But all 3 were not hesitant to jump into bed with guys on 1 night impulse before me. Always made me a little jealous why they didn't feel attracted enough to me for it to happen early on meeting but what become apparent after that was the sex side of our relationships were all spectacular. Ah Turn offs would be mainly associated with narcissism.
