You know i actually think that this is good advise, if we ever do end up catching up im not going to really care or get my hopes up. I know its hard to believe but i think as time goes by and nothing happens between the girl and i (which is pretty much 99% the chance) then i think i will loose interest and just see her as a friend, hopefully.... anyway i dont think we will ever see or talk to each other again Will try to start seeing other girls when exams are over.
like you said in the following post, probably nothing. yeah, just don't see the girl and you'll move on. if you try to be friends with her it will just make it harder to get over her. but it sounds like you already realize this.
Hi everyone, Last post from me, Waited 2 weeks, organised another catchup, this time i could tell she was very interested. Hanged out for 10 hours and went to her place for movies and drinks. Felt like i should have made a move but chickened out lol It was on my mind a lot as i knew 99% she was waiting for something To make a long story short, i asked that chick if i could catchup Tuesday night, she kind of turned me down because of work and that the weekend was probably better, i acted cool about it and pretty much told her that i will be coming to her house saturday night and she is going to cook me a feed and we are going to have a bottle of wine like big arrogant bloke lol. couple of hours she told me she changed her mind and that i can come over to her house tuesday and she agree to saturay night lol Last night went to dinner, back to her place for desert, then when she dropped me off the train station i asked if i could kiss her, she said "no shouldn't we wait until saturday night" and then said she was joking and kissed me lol It was a pretty passionate 20/30 second kiss as well, tongue and all, so i think she likes me. I also kind of got excited and told her that i find her really attractive and fun to be with and that i really like her lol She then sent a txt about 5 minutes later thanking me for a great night and letting her know when i get home safely and that she cant wait for Saturday night So yeah, i guess things are going good. Im assuming she really meant what she was saying in her txt, that perhaps i was going to fast into relationship zone with all the fancy restaurants, and that she wants to take things slow and go to amusement parks an stuff, like what every one was originally suggesting. Cya later everyone and thanks for your positive advice