Posts like that make me love you, getting beyond like now.. Seriously, you are one of my favorite writers on the scene here, and I'm just getting to know you... But to answer your question,"no, a woman getting raped would want to get away even if her body somehow liked it, a woman being molested though, might stick around"
Well, I guess I'll put in my truth here. I was raped by a big black guy in a motel room. It was non-consentual and he intimidated me, and after a while I realized I had to just comply, that nothing I would say would have made any difference. I'm a man, I'm not gay, and I had never had gay sex before in my life. All of a sudden I was not only having gay sex, but unprotected gay sex at that. I was totally freaked out, and the thing is, I honestly think all my sexual attitudes have been all convoluted since then till now. I ought to get some kind of counseling, but I don't know what to say. It's not a matter of getting over it. I'm fine, I go to work, I eat sleep and exercise and party a little just like the next guy. But my sexual picture is all fucked up, whether I like it or not. (Also, I didn't enjoy it one bit--unlike our friend here, who at least came, evidently his first orgasm in life, assuming his story's for real.)
Well I already reiterated that I sensed some positive feelings that I have never experienced in my life until that point. I'm sure that if I was a girl I may have reacted differantly.