I honestly feel like I can't. I've just let things go and just tried hard to relax. My girlfriend (I am a lesbian) more expericeed than myself know wwhat to do, but she just dives right in to my crotch region, and during sex honestly have felt more from the experice than when i am alone. I get almost tremmors during both of these experices where my body almost wants to curl in on it's self it can be only like a minute in with alot of pleasure as it almost seems like i was anticipating, but then it just leaves. I just feel wrong and like there is something wrong with me especially when my girlfriend can get there but I can't. Any tips, advice, or insight would be extremely appreciated.
I'm a straight guy but I'll try to help. Has your partner ever tried a vibrator on you? Some women can only orgasm with the help of a sex toy.