Tricked into Fatherhood

Dave, I don't know what telemetry means and that seems to be key to understanding this post.

 

telemetry is like the information you gather from a probe, and, as I have come to the conclusion that my relationship with my body is more like that of an operator and a probe than that of a contiguous being (or my relationship between my soul and body) I prefer the word telemetry, also, it is one neat package to describe all remotely gathered information.

 

I don't quite know what this means, but I could use the same phrase myself and it would make perfect sense in relation to me.

Still, I don't believe this man has any obligations to the knocked up lass. She is a manipulative whore and should pay for her misdeeds on her own.

 

oh.
care to elaborate on the trip part?

 

to be honest I have almost no clue what we're talking about.

Bella said that twisted shit, and then when I asked her to explain she gave me this really backwards nonsensical answer and started talking about getting raped by her dad to garner sympathy after people put up their noses in response to her arch-bitch comment. so when she refused to answer my query I just typed up some random John Cale lyrics and Dave seemed to get something out of it and now we're talking about.. what objectively matters... I think.

 

OK, my idea of things is that we were discussing the question of whether "Right or wrong" actually matters.

Then dave starts talking about this telemetry shit and I feel like I need to take some acid to bring me BACK to reality.

Brain fog arrives at the worst of times.

 

I need to go somewhere specific I've been called.

 

I'm working under the assumption that I'm where people are trying to get by dropping acid......

 

you're playing if awfully coy.

 

at least it isn't a brain cloud.

 

I need to go to Petra one of these days. I'm not sharing the reasons though.

 

like in the Middle East?

 

yes.

 

wow.

 

I don't see how he has no reponsibility-

It's not like we have complete control over pregnancy aaanyway; so if the condom broke, perhaps I should have no responsibility for my child because I didn't plan it with a ruler?

 

I have known people to get pregnant while using birth control (myself included) and also a cousin who had a tubal ligation...so I guess if u don't want to care for children, the ONLY 100% way to make sure u don't is not to have sex.

 

if he had wanted the baby and she hadn't, she'd aborted, he'd have no say in the matter, the mother can make that decision for both of them.

men don't have a "cancel sperm" option in analog. honestly? this makes me wonder about the concreteness of this, I cannot have an opinion either way because I do not have enough telemetry.

 

Men also don't have to deal with the vicissitudes of either pregnancy or the procedure of abortion.

For that reason, it's tough to make the argument that men have an equal say.

The best cancel sperm option out there is to not stick your weiner in someone unless you're willing to face risks-

 

If they were both together at the time...but they werent. She went behind his back, PURPOSEFULLY trying to have his child. Not an accident. So no, he shouldnt be responsible if he doesnt want to be. Thats HER foolish mistake.

 

Any guy who doesn't want to be responsibly for a child shouldn't be screwing around in the first place....otherwise he will start acting like a whiny child himself

now really...was this guy drunk and did the girl drag him off to her bed? Don't think so. So if a grown adult male makes a chioce to fuck the girls brains out...how is it that any child that appears 9 months later, not BOTH of their responsibility?