Treating her like shit

I wasn't really saying that you don't get laid or whatever... actually, I was saying that most people your age generally don't want long-term relationships, which is true. So we're actually agreeing, I think.

You're still in your 'playing the field' stage, which is fun... but it gets pretty tedious when you're in your late twenties-- that's when the players get depressed or pathetic, because their lives are so empty and they're still so immature. I know a guy like that, actually.

AND I never said your strategy was getting you nowhere, I said that MY strategy got ME nowhere when I was 19. If you're being honest, then that's not a strategy. It's a good thing, I think. As long as you know what you want.

 

I couldn't have said it better, I agree, time to live and learn!


Bustramp

 

bustramp is right, you can always be a "nice guy" like i am, but you have to draw the line for self-respect.

 

or she'll wise up and leave you?
If women are dumb enough to let guys get away with doing nothing for them they honestly deserve it in a twisted way because they're making ya'll lazy for the rest of us who actually require a little effort.

 

Playing games is very tempting in a relationship. I think it adds a bit of excitement like..."what's next" as long as it doesnt get out of hand. Be your self and get some tushi. If the tushis good, then love her.

 

You are the average 19 y/o...

Your heads still up your ass and your still at the "look at me, my girlfriends older than me" stage.

 

No, she will walk all over you take what she wants and leave you there to rot. Who said we are not doing enough? You? Ok. I wouldnt try for you in a million years.

 

I am 25 thank you and I think from reading your posts that you have a lot to learn, get over yourself jester

 

Man there is a lot of losers on this forum.

 

I'm sure I've missed out on a great possbility d:

 

underplay's the Lucky one in that snafu senario of no connection...

 

If there wasnt a connection we wouldnt be together, ever think about that one genius? Take your shitty no good input and get the fuck out.

 

Of course... why do you think I posted what I posted?

When will you be taking reading comprehension?
You might consider keeping a lid on it until you learn how to connect the dots...


BTW profanity is not a substitute for Intelligence contrary to popular opinion round these forums... *L*

 

i got carried away, i apologize.

 

I wouldn`t give it too much thought either way.

Chicks are all the same and there are always more.

 

Not a problem.
Apology not required but accepted...

 

granted I've never had many female friends so maybe most girls are like that but I get sick of hearing guys say girls like assholes. ummmm NOOOOOOOOOOO. I don't.

Maybe you guys are just dating immature ones. I know I sure as hell don't like getting treated like shit and I'd be worried about dating someone who does. Maybe young girls like dicks because they haven't figured out that guy with a nice heart is way better than that guy with a nice car (being attracted to materialism and not abuse)but thats immaturity. Like how guys like slutty girls until they grow up and want to take one home and start a family, and all of a sudden there taste change.

I have a hard time believing most WOMEN like jerkish men

 

I'm actually 24, and I've been in 7 what you could actually call "relationships" and that's not counting the handful of others who were "amis avec des avantages." Four of the "relationships" lasted beyond a year. How is that even relevant to the point I was trying to make, anyway? I don't see the connection, but Jester, I gotta hand it to ya: you sure have a knack for using the (perceived) personal shortcomings of others to try to prove them wrong instead of actually coming up with valid arguments.

Here are some examples of ignorant blanket statements that people use all the time:

"you must be [blank] because you say [blank]."

"because women do [blank], that means men do [blank]."

"all men think [blank] and all women think [blank], because that's what i've observed in my life experiences, therefore these "facts" must be true across the board! I mean, that's what I see, and I'm soooooo important, so it's gotta be the truth!"

Why making sweeping and ignorant generalizations is just plain stupid:

A.) Making such broad generalizations for a species that has a myriad different cultures and walks of life is indicative of extreme ignorance and self-importance - that's a lot of points of view that you have no way of truly perceiving. How could you? Have you traveled the globe getting to know all the peoples of the Earth? Are you capable of reading minds? Keep in mind that there's a whole planet out there - a crazy melting pot of endless lands and cultures. There 6 billion (give or take a few) homosapiens on Earth. There's bound to be some variation in values, emotions, customs, etc.

B.) You're not a woman, and you're certainly not every woman on the planet. You may have dated a lot of women in your lifetime, but that doesn't mean you can know what goes on in the minds of the billions of other humans on the face of the Earth. You don't know, and I don't care what your rebuttal is, because you can't change the fact that you are you - not someone else, and you are certainly not someone of the opposite gender.

C.) Yours seems to be a very narrow world-view. You seem to believe somehow that you are endowed with immense wisdom for someone of your age, but you certainly don't act like it. What exactly are you trying to prove? What you're proving to most on this forum is that you lack diplomacy and tact in your arguments. I've been on these forums such a short time already, and every time I read a post of yours, I never see you show the least bit of class in your statements. Your arguments do nothing more than to make people believe you are a jackass. You rarely have any real examples to back anything up - you always just pick on people you don't agree with and poke fun at them in an attempt to make yourself look like you're right. Perhaps instead of rebutting with contempt for others, you should start proving to people that you aren't a jackass by showing courtesy towards others while still having lively debate. If you're truly knowledgable about a subject, you can have a lively debate without it getting personal.

For the record, I have nothing against you, Jester. Afterall, these are all internet personas we are hiding behind, and none of us can really, truly know each other on a forum such as this. I intend no ill will or anything like that. It just bugs me when people make broad generalizations about something they couldn't possibly 100% know, and stick to that opinion no matter what. Free thought requires flexibility and a willingness to try to see things from a different perspective, even if you don't always agree.

 

This had to be THE BEST and REALEST advice on here and all so true.

 

WOW you remind me of sonador_hermosa??????