In my sexual experience, if I wanted to fuck a woman in her butt I would first eat her ass really good to get her relaxed and use to having her ass played with. You won't find too many woman that won't let you in after giving her booty a good licking.
I agree. First give her ass a good licking, then slip a finger in her ass, possibly while continuing to eat her pussy and getting her further relaxed, and at that point a cock won't seem like such a big deal anymore. When I've wanted anal I've usually approached it along those lines, instead of asking her out of the blue if she would like to have anal sex - you probably won't have too much success if that's your idea of trying to get a girl into anal. It's your job to make it about HER pleasure before you can expect her to initiate anything herself.
That is the best approach. If a lover is good to my ass, my ass screams COCK, Please! With good lovers, it's me who asks for anal. Tossing salad... I didn't know this expression. Weird.
This is what I have told men for years, and it's golden advice. Women often hear from other women butt stuff hurts, so they are naturally reluctant. But once you expose their beautiful bottoms to the hidden fruit of anal stimulation with ur tongue, it's literally the key that opens the backdoor. If u want to get in her butt a french kiss deep in her ass is the best way to show her u are interested in her pleasure too. Not only does it get her interested and practically begging to try ur dick but is also makes anal FAR more pleasurable for the girl. I LOVE eating my wife's ass, after that I don't need a blow job I'm rock solid and sometimes dripping.
That's what annoys me about the anti-anal sentiment I see here. Those people seem to judge and label any guy who loves anal sex an inconsiderate jerk that tries to force his partner to do something that she doesn't want to. But when you take the correct approach, that's not even the question! Give a woman a treatment like we've described here, and majority of them will end up gladly participating in anal sex, finding it pleasurable and actually asking for more! I would never try to push something on an unwilling participant. I've never once done that. When in bed, it's one of my biggest turn-offs and mood killers when she's just not into it. But the women I've had anal sex with always ended up liking it! And that's because I introduced it to them in a way that takes their pleasure into account. The biggest anal lovers, such as myself, would always make sure to do just that, because we know that it's absolutely crucial if we would like to have continued access to her ass. Unfortunately, impatient jerks have to ruin it not just for themselves, but also for the others that come after them.
It is the Gentleman's duty to worshop his Lady's anus before putting his penis in. Do it with safe partner only and you can suck her anus while asking her to push (as if she is going to poop) It would feel great for her. But be a MAN and be prepared if she farts / poops in your mouth, do NOt feeak out and get grossed like a whimp...It is very unattractive...Real men do worship the women from head to toe... Just indulge.
The gently pushing out advice is good. When women push out a bit and you can get your tongue in there, in my experience, its been very enjoyable for them. I think it exposes the nerve endings which enhances the stimulation.
Guys like you an myself do not cause these stigmas. It's the douche bag guys who just go ramming away their girl's asses without any preparation or concern. If guys want to try the "oops I slipped trick" it needs to be with their tongues and not their dicks. Little do they know that by giving a little, you can get a lot. There is not much a girl won't let you do to her butt once you've had your tongue in it. When girls are new to anal and see it feels good, they are initially obsessed about it and want to do it all the time. When you finger her butt, after you've eaten her butt, and while ur eating her pussy, curl your finger towards her vagina as if ur trying to rub her g-spot through her anus. It will feel like it's in her pussy and ass at the same time.
When I saw you as the last post, girl.. I knew you'd looked at it the wrong way lol. There's just some sexual expressions that really turn me off. Tossing salad is one.
Even if anal doesn't happen, I am always happy to give her ass a good licking , drives most girls wild!
Tossing salad and rimming is 2 different things: Rimming is on the outside, and tossing salad is when the tongue enters the inside- I do NOT feel tossing salad is a healthy thing to do AT ALL!
