Torn Between Jealousy And Desire For Wife To Fuck Other Men

I've been married a few years to an absolutely lovely girl who satisfies all of my needs, sexual and not. I have never had an open conversation with her about how many men she'd been with in the past - shes a really 'good' girl and I suspect her lack of interest in discussing is rooted in respect to me and being timid rather than having a secret high number of men. Our sex life is quite kinky and very fulfilling, but (because of porn and the internet), I've been quite interested in sharing her with other men, whoring her out, having her sleep with my friends, etc.

She claims not to be interested in fucking other men, but I know she is exceptionally loyal and would never do anything to jeapordize our marriage, but on the other hand, from our sex life, I know she is a whore and am certain she would love a few cocks in her holes, a few extra hands spanking her ass, and a few big cocks stretching her throat.

It turns me on immenseley to consider her with other men, but at the same time, I am extremely jealous and am worried that if I were to ever indulge my fantasy, that I would hold it against her.

Does anyone have any experience with this? Does the thill supercede the jealousy?

Love to hear feedback. I really want to see my wife sucking another mans cock while I slap her ass but don't want to hate her for it in the future!!!

 

Jees! Another one!

 

Do you love your wife?I mean "really"love your wife?If so,keep those thoughts to yourself.Take up another "hobby" thats not harmful to you,your wife or marriage.Golf?Fishing?Bowling?Some people seem to be totally obsessed with sex.Like an addiction.Im no angel,Im broadminded to an extent,but if my Husband suggested those things you suggested?First I'd slap him around the face,and then I'd kick him out.

 

Well, trolls DO breed like rabbits!

 

Sorry? i dont frequent this forum enough to know this is a stale topic.

 

Ive only been a member of this forum for a short time and if I had a dime for everytime Ive read that "fantasy"I'd be a very happy lady.Do yourself a favour bud,just enjoy your time together,just the two of you.You don't need to complicate your lives by either suggesting that fantasy of yours or inviting other people into your lives.Find some peace within yourself,maybe meditate and you will get a clearer picture of your life & relationship.

 

I totally didn't intend to come here sounding like a degenerate; I thought this was the place to discuss these types of thoughts.

My wife is a slut. She does anything and everything sexual (public sex, spanking, slapping, BDSM) with me, and is my submissive in every way - she calls me 'daddy' in front of her friends (which I never asked her to do). I never imagined this, nor did I force it, but she is a very loving and eager submissive wife and I am just trying to figure out if pursuing another fantasy is something I may regret.

 

Oh?I thought I read in your first post that your wife didn't discuss "other men",she's a "good girl"and she's not interesting in screwing other men?????You wrote a whole lot more though on your fantasy of sharing her with other men.Why even go there when the lady's clearly not interested.Plenty of websites advertising golf clubs and fishing rods.I suggest you try those instead of porn sites.

 

Mmmmmmm! Golf clubs!

 

Yeah I could think of a few things to do with a golf club actually.It involves pain and a penis! And a couple of balls if you're very unlucky!

 

Oi, and you are still yet to work out why?

Dont worry, she's already been with a bunch of other men, all of them probably 20 years older than you

 

This is not an abnormal thing at all. I felt the same way and wanted to see my husband with someone. And we tryed it. You have to go into it with a healthy mindset and if you're that jealous I dont recommend it at all especially with a friend. I actually enjoyed watching my husband with someone, but chose not to get to carried away with it. And who cares about her past, its exactly that, HER past. Hope this helps.

 

Involving other men in your sexual relationship with your wife is not something to go into lightly. This should enhance your already excellent marriage. Before you even consider having a friend, or friends, get sexually involved with your wife you have to consider their maturity level. You must also realize, that if you are the jealous type, how her enjoying your friends, probably more than she does you, could impact your relationship.

When I first had sex with my wife's best friend, all was good, then their relationship went South but, a few months later all was good again. That is not always the way it goes. One guy that we knew, and my wife had sex with, ruined our friendship. He liked having my wife, but afterward got all religious on us and saw us as bad people, so much that he didn't want his kids playing with our kids because of it.

Sex, to many people, is just sex. And only so many people can live polyamorously. The thing to remember is that once you do involve another man or other men with your wife, you can't go back. It happened and it is something you either enjoy and see as an anhancement to your marriage, or it destroys your marriage because it wasn't strong enough in the first place.

You, the OP, stated, "It turns me on immenseley to consider her with other men, but at the same time, I am extremely jealous and am worried that if I were to ever indulge my fantasy, that I would hold it against her." You also said, "I really want to see my wife sucking another mans cock while I slap her ass but don't want to hate her for it in the future!!!" This tells me that for you two this should remain a fantasy.

I am always in praise of couples who communicate well and often and share fantasies, but this time it appears that this is not a shared fantasy. It is YOUR kink. It is my advice that if you really want this to happen, then you have to make sure that your paramount concern is improving your marriage through more open communication and knowing each other's love language.

You mentioned, "I've been quite interested in sharing her with other men, whoring her out, having her sleep with my friends, etc." Do you even know what Whoring out means?

Verb
whore out ‎(third-person singular simple present whores out, present participle whoring out, simple past and past participle whored out)
(informal, transitive, vulgar) To prostitute, take advantage of, exploit, show off; to hire out or provide to others like a whore;

Sharing your wife should be about increasing the love in your relationship, not taking advantage of her or exploiting her. All men like to show off their women but, theres a difference.

I was invited to a gang bang a few years back and left, not getting any, just because of the husband's actions and how he was treating his wife. It wouldn't have bothered me, but I could see it in the wife's eyes, and in her body language, that she was only doing this to please her husband. That's not how it works. Sharing your wife with other men should be something that you both want. and it should please both of you when it happens.

You said it yourself, "She claims not to be interested in fucking other men, but I know she is exceptionally loyal and would never do anything to jeapordize our marriage, but on the other hand, from our sex life, I know she is a whore and am certain she would love a few cocks in her holes," I wonder what she has done or said to you to make you believe this.

You said, "I suspect her lack of interest in discussing is rooted in respect to me and being timid rather than having a secret high number of men." Where is the return respect?

My wife has lovers and so do I but, having lovers has helped us love each other more.

When my wife read this post with me, she stated, "I'm not a whore, but I will have sex with a guy, especially if he seems to have no chance with anyone else, because we all deserve sex. If you want to call me something, call me with a community service provider."

My wife and I have sex with other people, and even have romantic relations with other people, but that has never diminished our love for one another. I would never "whore out" my wife. She is my wife, and I love her too much to ever do that to her. When we have gone to the adult theater, and she has had sex with every guy in the place, it has been because she brought it up, and she wanted to do it. I didn't have to suspect anything. And because my wife has the best sex with her first love, it doesn't bother me. Why? because I know how deep their love is for each other.

When you get to a point in your relationship where you both can openly talk about both of your desires, and they match, then you can think about going forward with your kink but, it has to be something she wants as badly as you do.

Women know us men better than we think they do, and if you think you are jealous, you can count on it that she knows that as well. I don't see this going well if you proceed. I have been in the lifestyle most all of my life, about 38 years of it. I know what I'm talking about. And I have seen things go bad for other people. Don't make a mistake you'll regret for the rest of your life.

 

I just know, if you were my husband, you would have felt yoga's golf club up your ass! you call the woman you love whore! You want her to do stuff for you! Then likely make her life a misery for doing it!
You need to keep your fantasy to yourself! Cos it will ruin your life! And hers!

 

"This should enhance your already excellent marriage"

Dude, do you think most people reading that are going to be more convinced or less convinced about anything following that, if you start off with something like that?

 

Ive just re read the original post! (Morrow,I had a giggle at your reply!lol)Ok I am standing firm on my previous replies,but......(Quote)"I have married a really lovely girl who satisfies all my sexual needs"Is'nt that your answer?? Why not just be happy and content with that?Why want any more than that?I believe sex is important in a relationship,but it should not be the only thing you have in common,or the only thing you do together.If it is?Then thats bordering on addiction!Like gambling? I also hope,you satisfy all your wives needs too and its not all one sided.

 

uke:

 

I am reading it after this many years and I am extremely pleased with this reading/reply!

if possible I would like to hear more from you and get more advice! I am very very impressed!
Thank you!

 

I can only speak from personal experiences.
I’ve had this wife sharing / hot wife fantasy for decades. My wife (ex) indulged me and had a lover frequently for 6 months. This was after talking about it for a year. I was so turned on knowing they were together, but also insecure and jealous. If I was out of town I knew they were doing it in my house I was so aroused that I’d HAVE to masturbate. Of course once I came the bad emotions hit.
Current wife and I talked extensively about trying MFMs. We finally did when a close friend came to town. She and I were both so turned on awaiting his arrival. That first time I was so turned on during our foreplay it was amazing. He took her first. Watching her guide his bare cock into her…..WOW. So exciting but my emotions were all over the place. The ease that she came with him had me insecure….but hard as a rock. He and I took turns with her and she came several times. The kicker was when I finally came in her (he already had) and my excitement tanked. I couldn’t get it up again. But the two of them kept going. He was a great lover for her. After he wore her out and left I could finally get it up again, and reclaimed my wife. Made me feel better when she came with me.
We talked about it the next day. She said it was hot having two guys lusting for her. I never confessed my jealousy or insecurity. we’ve had a few more mfms with him. Same great sex…… same jealousy and insecurity for me. Yes I wish we were still doing mfms but we haven’t now for years. It was becoming obvious that feelings were developing so my wife put an end to it. It’s a double edged sword.
Hope this helps. Good luck.