I think they should be able to. And yes, it is weird that people ever stopped being cool with it, or that we haven't yet reached that point, in our apparently liberal western world.
I didn't read the part where you descibed in detail how you laid ass up on the bed and used your middle-and index finger to bring yourself to a climax. I honestly didn't.
Perverted? Exit polls prove that about 99% of the male posters and 95% of the female posters think it is not perverted.
i think it`s basically we`re uncivilized in some ways. perhaps in some ways more so than other parts of the world. men tend to "grope" women, & would be more so if topless were allowed. all america isn`t a rainbow gathering. or nudist colony. some parts of the world are more so. i guess like europe for instance. nudity is slightly more ingrained or something. there are more differences too. & some think i`m crazy when i point these out. like mass transit for instance. think about it.