This is a good question... I personally dont care which way ... I think it should really depend on the person... Sometimes it may depend on how i feel about the guy...
Well today I had an event that really changed my last post.... I think I am a TOP! I was playin around today... I have a this Gavle (sp?) liek the ones judges use, and i put a condom on the end of it, and just pushed it in and out as if i was actually havin sex... I really didnt like it, I mean... Its just dosent feel to well.... BUt that could be the fact that what i was using was WOOD and kinda pointy on the end...
I'm a fully feminized and transitioned (female hormones, facial feminization surgery, breast implants, etc.), male to female transexual lady, and I love being feminine and submissive with my handsome man. I am a very independent, assertive lady, but when it comes to lovemaking, I am the submissive, my man is the dominant handsome masculine loving man, and I am the submissive beautiful feminine loving lady. I love that!
girls don't have dicks so I'll say this question pretty much applies to guys... haha Oh, and I love being a big ol' bottom. I like the other guy to take control!
It depends on the community I think. A different forum I'm at is filled of mostly STRICT tops, and a few STRICT bottoms. This forum seems to be versatile bottoms mostly.
Just recently I topped for the first time!!!! It was pretty amazing. I've been in a new relationship for about three weeks, and this is the first boyfriend I've had who was willing to let me. We switch off, though, because it's still nice to bottom, but topping is pretty sweet, too.
Thats it exactly. Just the thought of completely giving up my body for the pleasure of somone else and letting them have their way with me is sooooo hot.
I'm a submissive, definitely, it's more in tune with my nature and I perform so much better there, in top position even with women I'm like 'okay that's enough kissing...wtf do i do now?...'.:toetap05: Plus I have no idea why but thrusting just isn't something that comes naturally to me, I really have to concentrate to keep a decent rhythm, and I the type of person who hates monotonous stuff, I get bored easily when I have to do the same thing over and over. I guess that's another reason why I like being a bitch, I can do so much more. Am I weired?
I can go either way with either gender, mostly depending on their age and physical appearance... but I'm shy so I usually end up being on the bottom, even though bottoming can be dangerous and given I'm not so trusting of people in general, going all the way as a bottom almost always gives me a lot of anxiety and worry that lasts about 100 times longer than the actual fuck. Then again, sometimes it's nice to just be really passive and not have to do anything and let some really energetic cocky guy have his way with you.