Top or bottom MERGED

Never had the opportunity to try, but i fantasize being the submissive one, i guess i prefer being on the bottom, but I'm not too sure.

 

Do you really think TOPS are in control? Why do you think there are so many bottoms?

Signed,

A BOTTOM

 

versatile for sure...

 

Sexually, the picture is a bit complicated. However, I would prefer to be the "boy" of the relationship, which is to say that I prefer to be socially dominant. I'm a very romantic and caring person, so I would feel it most natural to bestow these feelings of mine upon a loved one in abundance, more so than vice-versa. Though I would certainly welcome and even expect passion and initiation on his part as well, I would prefer to assume the role aforementioned.

 

I'm a bottom only

 

I'm the same way. I've always considered myself a sub bottom with men, as I never had the desire to top another guy.
However, as I get older, the idea of topping a cute twink (someone at least 21) is appealing to me.
I've always had an undeniable "feminine" side (though you probably wouldn't know that if you saw me in public. The only ones I know of that have picked up on this side of me is females), so I can definitely appreciate feminine qualities and traits.

 

With women (my wife) I can be the top or bottom, and my wife is the same way.
When it comes to men I've always considered myself a submissive bottom, as I never had the desire to top another guy, and I've always found a somewhat "aggressive" and take charge kind of guy to be very attractive. For the right guy, I'm more than willing to be his totally submissive bottom (though that's only happened with 1 guy before). I've always had a very strong desire to have a handsome guy make love to me (not just fuck me).
As I get older though, I've become a lot more open-minded, and the idea of topping a cute twink has become really appealing to me.
So from an experience only standpoint, I'm a submissive total bottom... But from a desire standpoint, I'd be versatile, with a strong preference of being a bottom.

 

I'm more of a submissive. I like being told what to do, and light discipline if I mess up.

 

I've always been a submissive bottom with men. Just the thought of a handsome guy with a really nice cock totally sexually dominating me drives me wild.
As I get older though, I've become more open-minded to the idea of possibly topping a cute twink pretty boy (someone at least 21). I've always loved ass play (my own and with a partner), but it's only been within the last 5 years or so that I've become interested in topping a twink. I never could, and still can't ever imagine topping a masculine guy, as I have a feminine side myself, and that's one of the reasons I've become more open-minded and interested in twinks and/or androgynous younger guys.

As a married guy, I can go either top or bottom with my wife. We both enjoy switching it up regularly and taking turns being the dominant/submissive one when it comes to sex. When it comes to day-to-day life, my wife is actually more dominant, and I'm the easy going, go with the flow type. I don't know if that makes me submissive in day-to-day life, but in general I tend to defer decision making to my wife (happy wife, happy life ?). Prior to meeting my wife, I've been the easy going, go with the flow type in day-to-day life, but the more dominant sexual partner (ironically, I've never thought of myself as sexually dominant) with the other females I've been with.

 

Bottom feels good for me! Rarely top