Top Bottom Or Switch?

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by MysticScout, May 23, 2016.

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  1. DaveTheBiGuy

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    You sound like my kind of top guy.
     
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  2. subshawn41

    subshawn41 closeted sub

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    Bottom all the way.
     
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  3. pharmer420

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    Versatile
     
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  4. LowHangers

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    I'm a bottom and have yet to fuck a man in the ass. I've fucked numerous women in the ass, but never a man. Once I took my first cock up my ass (big 9 1/2" too) I was sold! I've been sucking that cock for about 6 years now and taking him up the ass for a bit over a year. I just wish I'd experimented in my 20's with anal rather than waiting until I was in my mid 50's. Never the less, I've been making up for it over the past year.
     
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    I m (more) bottom. This is switch?
     
  6. JDRush21

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    I do both, but I much prefer to bottom. I'm not always into it, but when I am and I hop on that cock to ride it, I get rock hard immediately and it feels so fucking good. I was riding a black guy once and shot my load hands free before he bent me over and made me his cum slut. Unfortunately he was wearing a condom so I couldn't feel his warm sperm drip out of me when he came. I've had sex with about 6-7 guys, bottomed for 3 of them and have yet to receive that delicious treat.
     
  7. Scottishdk

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    I'm top love being sucked by sub/bottom guy
     
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  8. DaveTheBiGuy

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    I've always thought of myself as a bottom, and I've never topped another guy before. I'm also much more on the submissive side with another guy behind closed doors. As I get older though, I do often wonder what it would be like to top another guy. I like my tops my age or a bit older than me, my size or bigger (but not too overweight), and someone with a take charge (dominant), assertive attitude. "Dad bods" are hot in my opinion, and I definitely have a preference for a cut cock.

    As far as the kind of guy I'd be intwrested in topping, I think he'd have to be a specific type... Someone a little younger than me, smaller framed, "feminine" twink type.

    I too, had an awesome experience with a mature black guy (he was 42 and I was 28). He wasn't necessarily "dominant", but he was assertive about what he liked/wanted. That was such a hot, erotic experience, and one that I definitely wouldn't mind repeating if the right guy were to come along.
     
  9. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Are you dom, or do you just enjoy a submissive bottom guy ? I fit that mold, and I'm open to almost anything with the right guy. For the right guy, I'd really like to be totally sexually dominated.
     
  10. Bicaptain My Captain

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    I like sucking cocks and before prostate cancer was a top. In my golden years I wonder about being topped.
     
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  11. ed0870

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    Complete bottom
     
  12. soulpoker

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    Never participated but intend to. I usually see myself as a bottom, maybe occasionally switching.
     
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  13. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Sounds like a good time. :grinning:
     
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  14. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Me too!! I'm Also curious about topping another guy too.
     
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  15. Lovnflman

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    I'm more bi curious as I haven't been with a guy in 40 years. I had a regular suck buddy for a few years in my teens/early 20's. If the opportunity arises I think I'd be a strictly oral/bottom. Love it when my wife pegs me and makes me suck on her strap on. Wife has a nice gay male friend that I could see myself with. When ever I'm around him I feel turned on, shy and submissive........and wanting to suck him, and for him to take me. He's strictly a top (yeah, we talked about it). Unfortunately he has a live in partner and won't step out on him.
    I can't imagine myself ever wanting to fuck a guy's ass. That's what my wife is for.
     
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  16. soulpoker

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    Sounds like your wife would be OK with you taking some dick?
     
  17. Lovnflman

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    At this point in our 20+ year marriage, I highly doubt it. She knows of my suck buddy past. Turned her off when I first told her. Then things started opening up......started watching bi/gay/lesbian/MFM/MMF porn. We started having MFMs with the same close totally straight friend, and SHE suggested finding a clean bi guy for some MMF fun. Looked and looked, but never found a guy we both wanted. She had a one nighter with a married bi gal (figures I was out of town), so why can't I have one? Wife has shut down completely sexually so I'm not even getting straight sex. It f*cking sucks......I just wish I was getting fucked and doing some sucking.
     
  18. Granite69

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    ^^^

    It’s a thing.

    There’s a big difference between love of a person and continued sexual attraction to that same person. I’m past the point where I am going to analyze everything to death through a microscope and not super worried about how my wife feels about my sexual attraction to men.

    She knows the deal and still digs me.

    Anyway, to the point of the thread, I’m naturally a bottom but am more into the switch thing at this point in my life as I find that I’m attracted to other bottoms.

    People tend to overthink these things when they should just go with it.
     
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  19. trieditall72

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    I enjoy being bottom more, but I do top as well. I actually enjoy fucking or getting a bj, them getting fucked afterwards. It makes me feel slutty which I find erotic.

    I'm currently a very happy guy who has an amazing gf that found another bi guy to be with us. She loves watching me submit to him nearly as much as I love doing it. We try to switch rolls each time we are together. We all get fucked, and fuck each time we are together.
     
  20. dd788snipe

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    I'm a total sub bottom. Love having a dom man pound my ass.
     
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