Too Lazy For Sex?

Husband and i have been married for 7 yrs this last year he wants sex less and less to the point were i get headaches and frustrated af and only then he will want to have sex because i become irritable. He says he has work on his mind but that cant be the case all the time right? I think hes just become too lazy to actually "get physically worked up with me"

Question
Can guys get lazy enought to not want to have sex?

Backgrond info: since weve been together we had consistently been having sex 2-4 times a week this last year it has droped to maybe twice a month.

 

Foolish husband... where do you live?... I volunteer to help you out!

Sex is one activity that I'm not lazy about... EVER!

 

Maybe there something else going on in his mind hes not telling. That work on his mind is an excuse. You should talk to him more about it. Im never lazy in that dept..lol.

 

Maybe he's not lazy, maybe he's just worn out. Are you sure that he's not getting some on the side?

 

yes im sure never had any trust/commitment issues.

 

Did it work bro, did you get her number?

 

Consistently 2 times a week? LOL



I bet when you two were first dating he wasnt happy with that number, now its payback time


That and the now 7x52x2 times hes had to look at the same bits

 

I have a high sex drive so I couldn't imagine someone too lazy for sex. Something is going on with him and hopefully you can get him to open up about it. Good communication on the subject is the key to success.

 

pretty obvious he has a fuck buddy at work

either that or your constant nagging shriveled up his sack so much hes just not into you anymore

 

Sadly, no number... not even a comment!

 

well obvious next move is to send her dick pics


get crackin'

 

Who finds work more important than sex?

 

Unfortunately, I don't have any male friends named Richard.

 

Well, there's another possibility. You might have to drag him to the doctor, but maybe he should be tested for low testosterone. It's not nearly as uncommon as most people think and, although it's most commonly a problem for older men, it CAN affect men under 30. Low sex drive is the most common symptom.

 

please dont give people any bad ideas

 

Coming from a guy there are a few possibilities.

1. He's so stressed from work or something else he does not want sex
2. He's not happy with his body or yours so he does not want sex
3. He already got sex

 

but you do have a female friend named richard? her parents are assholes.

 

Goldenunicorn, If there is no cheating going on. Respectfully you and your husband need to sit down and have a open and honest conversation regarding your intimate life together. This problem can only manifest itself into further alienating both. As a suggestion, encourage him to get his Testosterone checked. I did and it is one of the best things I ever did for myself. Also show him you are willing to deal with this problem together as a team effort. My wife and I are very open regarding sexual communications. Also show him you are willing to masturbate together. We love doing this as well.
We exercise and eat right. I drink a lot of water daily and stay hydrated. Be clear with him that you have a sexual appetite.
You should not deprive yourself of this human pleasure. I know I will be judged for this but if all else fails, I suggest a FWB. You deserve a healthy personal sex life. It is good for the mind and body.