I used to like you hotwater but that JOKE WAS WAY OUT OF LINE. i USED to be deathly skinny and just bc I had al ittle bit of extra skin on my stomach after having an baby, my grandma made an awful comment. and things like that can cause someone to relapse. I am ignoring you from now on, no matter if you were joking or not. It was wrong. I didnt let myself go, I am an normal weight, but your offensive comments are retarded. and I dont care how old you are , and you think it is acceptable to joke like tha,t yOU obviously did not mature at all. and Yes for once I am seriously offended. I hope you have no friends that have an eating disorder, or underweight or overweight, bc I would hate for yout o hurt someone.
Seriously, who gives a fuck? We are all entitled to say what we like, so long as it is in good (adding futile joke, to prove my point) taste People on this website judge smokers, crackheads, cheaters and animal touchers here daily.
So there have been no comments made on here at all that upset you? No poster that said things that you felt were out of line?
about me personally? No, I don't get offended easily like that. I'm confident enough in my own skin that I don't care what others think of me like that. People have said things that have pissed me off, though. The OCD threads piss me off, there's an example of people being plain pathetic.
He may not and that is his right to not do so. While I may not agree with what he says, he does have the right to say it. I do not have to accept or agree with what he wrote, it will not change what I think or believe. What I write or believe will also not change his views. I am only responsible for what I do and say.
But, making a stupid 'joke' like that after someone posts about having a little weight after having a baby - who has suffered from an eating disorder should just be let go. I doubt she was the only one to find that offensive and insensitive. Like I said before I have worked with people with eating disorders and saying things like 'your letting yourself go' really doesn't help!
One time I made a joke to HippieChickMommy, when I was first posting on here and she complimented me, and I said, something like "I'm 14 lady! I'm gonna report you =P" and she sent me a PM talking about how she was crying and she's not a pedophile and all that, and I was like "calm down, I'm sorry, I was joking, dawh" If anything, we became better friends. To me, it was quite obviously a joke -- to her it was offensive -- but we were both able to be understanding of each other. That is for sure not happening in this case.
thanks tipsy! I am not going to cause problems on here, I am just disgusted, and imaginary being just like he has the right to post that garbage, I am allowed to post that I do not like it. that is the essence of freedom of speech. and yes I was and still am offended. If you spent 12 years of your life fighting people on letting yourself go. etc comments, you would be offended also. I am done in this thread. so continue to talk amongst yourself. I am going to let go of this, and move on to other threads.
*shrugs* sticks and stones, i'm afraid. It wasn't meant to be malicious, that much is really quite obvious. I am fed up of this nanny world we all live in.
Um, can someone please tell me exactly what post this is about? Is it the cattle prod joke? FREE Hotwater!!
It was about people who are skinny not liking it when comments were made to them about being 'anorexic' etc. But, then certain people made it into a joke thread about fat people.
You are entitled to not like it, of course. But it's all really unimportant, is all. You are the guardian of your own existence, so long as you're better then who cares what anyone says. I'm not trying to be rude at all, honestly