tips on what men like

I'm just going to go right down this list.

You mean like "fuck me harder." and "oh, god, stick your cock in my ****." or maybe a little "fuck you feel so hot inside me." and sometimes "I want to feel your cum deep inside me".

I love dirty talk but I'm usually really shy about it until I get more comfortable with my partner.

One of my fantasies (besides the one you and I have been talking about) has to be tying a guy up to the bed and teasing him. Wearing a sexy bra, panties and fishnet thigh high stockings with a garter belt.

I sometimes do that when a guy is going down on me.. Makes my clit protrude more and make it that much more sensitive.

I don't put my hands on my ass much unless I'm dancing. I do however put my hands on my hips kinda toward the back and stand like this on a regular basis. Nothing real sexual about it, just better back support I suppose.

When I'm on top I start out teasing, but deffinetely in control. I'm fast and furious which most guys can't handle. I've even been told to slow down. Usually the only thing I ask a guy to do is play with my nipples. Other then that, just stay still. Often enough most guys screw up my rhythem.

Eh, usually my blowjobs are more of a combined handjob/blowjob. For the most part I keep my mouth near or around the head and use my other two hands for the shaft and balls.

I got my tongue pierced and stick it out a lot.. specially if I'm licking a guys nipples or giving head.

Oh god. I love to ride a guys face.. Tug on his hair a little. And if I'm on my back, I still grab hair and buck up against the guys face. It's so hot and really makes me wet.

Mutual masturbation is fun. Like me lying on my back while the guy kneels between my legs.

Eh. I always do that. Stop walking when I know the guy is right behind me. Shake my ass, moon them, bend over on purpose so my ass is in the air. I love to tease.

I only have one thing I must add to your little list. If I wasn't around the guy I was with and sex wasn't an option at the moment, phone sex can be extremely fun and dirty as long as you have an imagination and roleplay a little.

 

For me, make noise, and talk dirty. Ask for it, take control.

 

If you really want to spice it up then bring home one of your girlfriends and have her watch or join in, or just let him be with her and you watch.

 

He sounds like somebody with Asperger's disorder or something similiar. Not to turn personality traits into psychiatric disorders which is way too prevalent these days, but yeah, failure to read social cues, intense interest with something like video games when his wife or 'a girl' gets near him and wants to spend time with him it upsets him. *hmm*

 

Ask him what his innermost fantasies are. If you find them to be turn-ons as well, then you might try realizing some of them if possible.

The whole bondage/S&M stuff is a territory that should be explored with caution. If you decide to give it a try, just make sure you and your boyfriend are both safe. You can have fun without causing pain.

Good luck

 

Weeble, all I can say is you sounds like a lot of fun!

 

I think sexually, I'm your type. Physically, I can already tell you that I'm not.

 

Well I like a girl who is very confident in herself, but not conceited in the slightest... then when we bang, dirty talk back and forth, changing positions, also some girls think that all guys want it fast from the get-go, and stay fast... that's not exciting. You need some variations and whatnot. I dunno those are just a few of my thoughts heh.

 

i would say ask him.. thats your best bet.. you could try a million things that we suggest and he may only like two and get offended by the rest.... so yea.. communication is the key to a healthy spontanious sex life.

 

well, upon further review of this thread.....mmmm....no, fuck all that, i was right.

BREAK HIM.

 

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get playful. i love it when my g/f does random playful things in sex. oral sex, for example, is a lot hotter, and a sense of connection with your partner is stronger, when its a matter of creative expression of whoever's performing it. seemingly pointless little tongue flicks, sucking small spots of random places, licking/touching **everywhere**, etc at the spur of the moment whenever you feel like it makes all the difference in feeling like sex is a mutual desire, rather than an expected chore. do things that aren't expected, and get in touch your 'primal side' which tends to want to get really passionate. if lovemaking is an art, as i think it should be, would you rather buy boring and uninspired art, or outrageous and passionate art?

 

Hmmm... what do you mean by that?

Yes, I definitely do have a 'type', but I'm extremely particular. There are so many criteria. So pretty much nobody is my type (including you, no offence!). I think my ex girlfriend was my type, but that's the only one I've met so far.

But how come you know this stuff about me? Have you been following me?

 

Just really observant, that's all.

 

Again, I don't need to ask him. We talk about sex all the time. We are both very open and there isn't much we haven't done. Or at least that HE hasn't done and I haven't heard how it went lol

I do need to work on talking dirty. And maybe tying him up. We do have a pair of shackles...

Thanks for all the ideas though. these threads are always fun to read.

 

maaaan, that sounds really fucking hot. you know, i love to do all those things, but my boyfriend doesn't fully appreciate them. maybe i need to have a talk with him.