Tips On Testing A Girl To See If She Is Really Into Me?

I recently started talking to this girl, and I've been getting really deep with her really fast. I am 18 and a freshman in college.

I just found out yesterday that her boyfriend broke up with her (recently) after 3 years. She is madly in love with him still, and yet is talking to me like she is practically falling for me. I don't know if I am being used for sex, or being used just to have some guy to hang on to, or what. All I know is ik not falling in love with some whore who just wanted some guy to hold and have sex with.

We haven't had sex yet due to her menstrual cycles, but she has blown me. How do I test her to make sure she is really into me and not just sticking around because she needs anyone? Do I refrain from having sex and see what she does? Do I lower her on my priority list and wait until she stops loving that guy until I get serious with her?

 

Try Asking Her what she Wants !! That Sometimes works

 

try working on you. it doesnt sound healthy or make for a good foundation if she isnt fully detached from other feelings in adittion to the fact it seems there is too much physical interaction for something uncertain which makes her seem to lack loyal traits. your call though ultimately. im just one hermit eating clam chowder

 

it might be why they finished, she is in to you?

in my experience, i dont want another guy since im still not over my X..but im older, so perhaps age has a lot to do with it..

Try staying out of touch a bit

 

Did she suck your penis against your will?

 

Lol...what what what?

 

She was on her period the last few days, so we haven't done anything.

 

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So you dont know if you are being used for sex, but you havent had sex yet?

The period will miraculously last another couple days, then there will be another reason you cant have sex or she'll disappear and move on to the next schtoop

 

MoM... Move. On. Man... You may be just that if you don't play your cards right. And I agree with Mally. Ask her what she wants. But if it were me I'd stay away from feelings, she hasn't been single long enough to know what she wants. Good luck!

 

Sounds like you are the rebound guy. And if you aren't yet you will be soon if you keep trying what you are trying.

 

And a girl isn't a whore for having different emotional needs than you. Yeah, sounds like you really like her.

 

One word sums up your relationship well.... Rebound.
She will most likely drop you sooner than later.
Harsh but true - you are nothing more to her than a necessary distraction while she heals.

 

I don't think you mean to call her a whore, specifically. Just a whore as an indifferent reference.

The rebound guy sucks, but if he has potential it could be true love. At 18 just be the best man you can be! Chose a lady that makes you want to be a better man and work miracles.

 

So, let me get this straight. You want to test her, which means you're into playing games, which means she can do better. If she turns out not to be exactly who you need her to be, she's a whore, just automatically. Plus she's already got a broken heart. Yeah. Do her a favor and hit the road.

As for her motives, I suspect she believes genuinely that she has found someone special in you, someone safe, and yes, someone convenient. I'm sure she believes she is genuinely into you. Most people do not set out to deliberately hurt others, it is something that happens as situations spiral from their control. I don't believe she'll keep you. But she might. As long as it is fun, let it be fun. If it stops being fun, reevaluate.

 

Get out of the bedroom and go out and have some fun. Then at least maybe you'll have a good friend at the end of all of this.

 

And you suspect you're the one being used? "You can use me, just don't use me up!" Be prepared for it all to come to an end, (it might not, you never know) in the meantime relax and go with the flow, enjoy it while it lasts. And don't be afraid to talk to her about it, speak your mind and let her speak hers.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NcFaVfTDWcs

C/S,
Rev J

 

Lolz, get out of the bedroom to have some fun.

Great advice, thats what he wants

I think he just wants to do things to her with his pee pee, I think thats all hes thinking about

Stay in ' the bedroom, have some fun