So I’m not trying to convince her to let me fuck her in the ass (though I wouldn’t turn her down). But I do think incorporating butt play into our other activities would be pleasurable. Rubbing around her hold, maybe a finger in, and licking. Has let me finger a little. Sometimes she’ll tells me it’s not doing anything. Once she was having trouble cumming and I slipped a finger in her butt. And then pulled it out and she frantically grabbed for my hand and put it back cuz apparently it was working for her. Her main hang up is the hygiene aspect. any recommendations?
that’s a pretty good idea. We don’t have a lot of time to ourselves so it won’t happen for a while. I’ve tried stuff before and it’s very hit or miss. She says to try things and she’ll tell me if she doesn’t like it. She knows that at least on one occasion she really liked a finger in her butt but since then she usually stops me ♂️
I once told her that if it would help I would let her do some tho big. Sort of like I wouldn’t ask her to do something I wasn’t willin to. She said no. But then asked if I wanted it independent of her allowing me to recipe. I said no cuz really I’m just trying to get her to loosen up. Again the aim is not for full on anal sex. Just to explore all avenues to the finish line for her
my first wife loved it also liked in bed rubbing it on ass crack and would end up doing it . when i rubbed her she would back up and press real hard. she wanted to watch me get anal. of course first i would have had to sux cock and watch her do him first so icould do creampie after
My wife had a friend whose husband wanted anal. My wife suggested a guy who would top him first, then she would agree to try it. I never did find out if the husband agreed to try it first, probably not, but what's good for the goose,,,
I had to let me put a dildo in my ass, just to show her it won't kill you. A finger and small butt plug was the extent of her anal exploration, however she didn't hold back when it came to putting a dildo up my asshole. I will gladly take anything she could dish out.
I realized early on that my wife enjoyed me fingering her tight little hole during oral on her. She also enjoyed when I rimmed her. I mentioned many times how we ought to try anal on her. She resisted the thought. I got to where a could insert my entire finger in her and her orgasms were always more intense. Her and I would always bet on football games between her and my teams. My demands on winning were always sexual in nature. Hers were more on lines of dinners or shopping. Knowing how she enjoyed the anal play we had, I made her a bet and if my team won....I take her analy. She took the challenge on account her team always wins against mine. It was a safe bet. Fate have it. I won. But in the end, we both did. She actually enjoyed it enough to occasionally have and at times take the lead I. Having it.
Rimming was the starter it always felt good then just rubbing or pressure against it during oral or doggy style would always lead to amazing orgasms so the natural next step was inserting a thumb with lots of lube. Clit was so sensitive that a dick must be even better. Can’t stress plenty of lube enough (Astroglide is fav) and clitoral stimulation. First time just got the head in and I came then he started to stroke in and out and I felt his balls slapping my pussy and he said he was fully in my ass. Felt so good I had to ask if he was sure he wasn’t in my pussy. I’ve never cum harder. Funny though I still only let him fuck my ass on rare occasions
