Hello everyone! Thanks for having me. Middle aged, straight, married 20+ years, white man here. A friend invited me and I thought the forums looked neat and a wide range of topics so I figured I'd join and see what's what. Life's messy. Be kind. Help others. Try not to hold grudges. Love unconditionally. Tip the scales to your own happiness by spreading kindness and compassion, even to those that may have wronged you or you don't even know. What goes around comes around. Life's to short to be a miserable person. Songbird- Fleetwood Mac Bird on a Wire - Leonard Cohen