I'd LOVE to tie up a lady!!! I'd go very slowly at first, by orally pleasuring her for about an hour, adding in some vibes of various types. Neck, nipples, belly, inner thighs, the backs of her knees - try it!! Then take a nice easy tongue walk to her clit and all over her lady zone, gently using my tongue to massage everything between her belly button and the top of her butt crack. I'd spend a good amount of time licking her rear pink bud while using a Magic Wand vibrator on her clit until she had 3 or 4 orgasms. She wouldn't be able to escape the pleasure. She'd have NO CHOICE but to cum, and cum, and cum. That would be the beginning.
I am very much into BDSM. I enjoy bondage more than anything, though. Thy physical sensation of being immobilized combined with the physiological aspect of surrendering total control to your partner is exquisite.
light bondage is always fun. My wife used to enjoy being tied & I would explore her body with my tongue bringing her close to orgasm and let her dance on the edge. Her orgasms where EXPLOSIVE and multiple. Then I'd fuck her face.