Okay.......seriously..........................................I'm speechless, you honestly have NO problem with gagging your guy's dick all the time?
It's only the last few times before he comes--it's not the entire time I'm sucking him off. And it's not every time I do him. But often. I don't LOVE to gag, on the other hand he LOVES the way it feels, so it is a trade off. It gives me pleasure to know he is feeling pleasure. I am sure there are some things he does to/for me that he would rather skip, but it gives me pleasure so he does it. Does that explain it better? Having a great relationship is all about the give and take. Also, we have been together FOREVER (we are old people lol) and the whole mutual trust that a situation won't be abuse comes into play also.
Gagging is too much of a turn-off for me. I hate it in porn - it's one of the most utterly degrading-looking things. Even with a partner who was into it, I'd struggle - but then I've had limited experience with women who want to push things anything like that far (pardon the pun).
I tried this once with some girl last year and the gagging was kinda cool and cute in a twisted way but I ignored her gagging when it got worse and the inevitable happened...just as well we were in the shower....messy...
I can't imagine anything sexy about gagging, seriously, your girl's choking on your dick, that ain't cool, unless you have a huge dick and she can't even get half way, then it's cool.
