So hard to get them to do a onesome a lot of the time, especially if there is a lot of dishes pilling up in the sink
I've never had trouble finding girls for that. It's much easier if you make the arrangements. The guy needs to mostly stay out of the negotiations. I find it a lot easier to find other couples, even though I'm not looking. Swingers seem to be everywhere around here. Is your BF willing to share you with another guy, to get what he wants? A fourway usually ends up being a threeway with one person waiting for their turn. That's not so bad, as long as everybody gets their time.
Lol no. He's not open to having another man penetrate me, at least that's what he tells me, maybe if it was made possible he would let it happen. But either way, we're both super on board on having a girl with us, but have yet to find one. And of course, I'm the one trying to make this arrangement happen, I wouldn't leave it up to him, lol.
As we've been discussing recently in another thread, every group negotiates their own ground rules. Some agree to oral sex only, or hand jobs only, or foreplay, or just watching each other. Whatever everybody is comfortable with.
My wife and I were talking last night, and see said she would be OK with bringing another girl into the bedroom, but we were trying to figure out how exactly to go about it. We well like asking one her girl friends would make things a little weird, but we also don't want a complete stranger. Any tips on how to go about this??