So, I need your help If someone can advice me. Me and my GF are 6 years together and we had a little break in the middle bla bla She is a very shy type but in bed she is not, she like's it rough and bondage and kincky stuff. I always tell her with a joke that we should have a threesome and she says I think It's ok for me cause I like to see you getting horny, doesn't matter If It's me or another girl as long as I'm in there. she doesn't like girls sex wise, so it's only me with another girl not her joining. Do you guys think it can ruin out relationship some how? ofcource that the girl we gonna bring is not someone I "love" thank you for the help
In short yes it can cause complications. When I used to do Relationship Counselling about one case every other month was complications resulting in from a threesome . The main problem is that one or more people in the "triangle" start developing feelings for this other person . It happens quite easily given the situation . Then jealousy can also develop within the existing partnership if he or she turns out to be a better lover. In a nutshell you are playing with fire and you may be able to control it . Only you will know that if you can . If unsure its best kept as a unacted fantasy . On the flip side some may tell you that threesomes can work . This is true but is it worth the risk ? Only you can decide that .
My gf and I have had mfm ffm swapped partners. We started playing a couple years ago it's been great we have a gf that stops by for fun times. It has not affected our relationship at least not yet. As said above problems can arise some friends of our had mfm with another friend and later on the gf had sex with the friend while the bf watched This caused a problem later jealousy became a big problem for the bf They split up about a year later
There are numerous threads on this topic. If you look back. at the last 5 or 6 pages, they ought to be easy to find.
