Thoughts on talking explicitly on this forum

1 yes, 2, yes,3 my wife passed away a while ago

 

I came here hoping for more personal interaction with people but it has been a bit disappointing. Most of the men are crude which is a huge turn off. Good conversation is a huge turn on for me, which I’m sure is a bit strange, but it’s true. Unfortunately that has been nearly impossible to find here.

I hope to see some of you as a result of this post in my messages

 

Will send message to you..;-)

 

I would not mind private message to you. I like adding to treads where all can see and read. Seems things have slowed down, and we need active posts here.

 

That’s fine then

 

How do you guys (and gals) feel about private conversations that get steamy? It's great.
Does it make you horny? Hopefully lol.
Do you feel like it’s part of your Sex Life? Most definitely.
Does your partner know and accept? Yes.

 

Yeah I get where you are coming from. I have on occasion had conversations with women in various forums here who were quite interesting and sometimes not so much. It has been a good way to determine if they are someone that I would like to have a more intimate conversation with. That said women can be a bit crude or lacking in imagination sometimes as well. So it's been a bit flat here most of the time.

 

So sorry to hear about your wife

 

Curious what you mean by “Crude” it is one of those words in English that I sometimes get confused by because of so many definitions. For instance, I do like explicit and rough talk in private which can be considered crude in some definitions, but I don’t like poorly written aggressive sentences which can also be considered crude. I find on this site that many men are very good are writing well written explicit messages and then there are a few like cavemen.

 

Perhaps crude is not the right word. And I am a fan of explicit talk as much as the next person. I think poorly written with a lack of detail might be a better definition. Maybe being a little too basic. My thing is telling and hearing explicit stories. Chatting with a woman who likes to share stories is a big turn on for me.

 

Sending you a message

 

Sure love to, hmu if you want lol

 

What is HMU?

 

Hit Me Up…means contact me

 

Ok…I thought maybe a University in Hawaii?

 

Now that I know what HMU means, I would like to, but your profile does not allow conversations from me

 

Lol should work now

 

1) Absolutely; 2) Most certainly; 3) Yes; 4) No.

 

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I was the "kid who likes big words" and once that twig was bent I wound up loving language play. Very much including erotic. Now that I'm well past threescore and ten it's a very great enjoyment indeed. Erotic conversation with like minded women is not only a great kick on its own, but a wonderful atmosphere for self-pleasure. I get so damn turned on by the combination of explicitness and wit.