Thoughts on talking explicitly on this forum

In my limited, but liberating time on this forum, I really love it when general conversation in the posts has turned to pretty explicit private conversations between myself and quite a few of you. Sometimes it’s fantasy and sometimes real desire. To me, this is a significant part of my sexual life now that often awakens desires which I can transfer to the real world.

How do you guys (and gals) feel about private conversations that get steamy?
Does it make you horny?
Do you feel like it’s part of your Sex Life?
Does your partner know and accept?

 

All depends on the conversation from the start. But I don’t like to get explicit right from the start because some get upset and not respond after but if they want to carry the conversation to steamy I’m all for it

 

Of course when I thought about this, it is the person who actually puts enough detail in a conversation so I can give and receive better. If I can visualize it really helps. I don’t get overly excited about simple comments like “do you have bigs tits” , “do you swallow” or “have you been with multiple guys” when if you read any of my posts, you would know those answers, LOL

 

Yes…you’re probably correct, although with me, I’ve been a bit of an open book the last few weeks, so other than people begging for fotos, I’m pretty happy!

 

This is a Pet Peeve of mine, when it comes to having private conversations. I am a very detail oriented person. If I have written several erotic stories, and when I was younger I ran D&D Games, as well as some diceless games that require specific detail in order to move the game along. I don't shy from explicit language and expect the same in return.

The problem I have, is that, in general those I seem to attract will tend toward reading what I write and responding back with "Uh Hu." or "Oh Yeah like that." or "More More." or other short but thoroughly uninspired responses. I have gotten to the point that I hesitate to get into a conversation that will see me doing all the giving and getting nothing in return.

If I describe my feeling in detail and explicitly describe what i am fantasizing about. I at least want someone to give me the same level of detail in response. If I chose to have a private encounter, I'm not doing it solely for their benefit, I want something as well.

 

Absolutely agree! I’ve had some that just ask all about my body parts or just simple things and I get nothing back. I usually tell people I would like stimulating conversation or fantasies to experience and with most subjects on the table and if I only get a one word reply at that point, I just stop

 

Gal after my own heart.
I have a fertile imagination and come up with some fairly unusual fantasies, and not always grounded in firm reality. So I appreciate it when someone gets into the swing and can follow my line of thinking as I go

 

Well maybe we should connect sometime…there is only do far you can take fantasies in the real word. Off to real world adventure now!

 

That would be wonderful.
I work from home so my schedule is very flexible. Contact me on PM anytime.

 

I enjoy them, but rarely get to engage in them. More often than not, I get stuck being messaged for some reason by men old enough to be my father. It would be nice to engage in that sort of discussion with a female, and no, I'm just venting and not asking for anything from you, haha.

 

The conversation exchange openly is always on this table;-) Talk soon!

 

Just an observation, but I think that having 7x13-28 in your profile probably attracts men old enough to know what it means and enjoy their work.

 

I don't know if I can add my 2 cents but totally agree, I usually give more than I get, if this is private I apologize

 

It makes me really HORNEY!! MY WIFE OF 52 YEARS ISN'T INTERESTED IN SEX ANYMORE DANG IT!! And hasn't been for the last 32 year's

 

I would definitely enjoy a good steamy conversation, lol it definitely would be a turn on and make the day better. My wife passed a while ago so it’s just me and the dog and I am sure he wouldn’t mind.

 

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Hi Jenna I like steamy talk it does make me HORNEY but then again two birds fucking makes me HORNEY Lol you get the idea I won't ask dumb questions so please consider me part of your group! Thank you

 

You always come up with great conversation starters, Jenna! Either in or just reading about peoples erotic adventures gets me horny. I think that’s what we want! It carries over in bed with my wife. We are 73 & 72 years young and always have multiple orgasms together. Everybody’s mind drifts to fantasies during sex (( I assume!) and the forum has provided plenty. My wife doesn’t monitor what I read about. She knows I love sex, look at pretty (and handsome people), will always love her! So, she’s cool. I have my own vision of what lovely Jenna looks like and you’ve been in some fantasies of my own! I always enjoy your stories…..they steam up my mind! Thanks ✌️

 

You are so kind! I’m so happy I can steam things up for you guys (and some girls if you are watching). Now that I’m finally getting over this respiratory virus, I need to jump back in the ocean!

 

Great to hear that your getting better!