there is a girl who likes me quite a bit. but the thing is, its not a mutual kinda thing. and i wanna tell her that i dont feel the same, but without her getting angry and pissy or upset. how would you guys say the best way to do this is? i would still like to be friends after so nothing to harsh
Personally, I'd like to just be told flat out. I've been through hell with guys being indecisive and all aloof about stuff, and nothing drives me up the wall more than that. Just tell her exactly what you said, that it's not mutual right now, but you still want to be friends. No harm done there, and it's honest. She'll be happier to hear the truth than "well.. i.. i mean i kinda..." etc. and she can just move on from there. hope that helps a bit
"im sorry but i'm just a friend. and i really would like to stay that, just that" just be upfront. most guys leave things kinda .. up to interpretation. which is the worst.
Burby, that reminds me. I got a shirt today with homer playing an electric guitar on it that says "Live Large; Rock Hard". Whoa, I totally found an Italian Stallion and a Sesame Street shirt too! I feel so awesome now! (That post has been brought to you by the letter "b") That was unrelated. My advice: Stay as far away from girls as you can because they will lead you on and be nice to you but then they will never return your calls and make you feel like a worthless creepy guy who buys cartoon and rocky related t-shirts that are on sale. *Pft* Girls suck! (Not you ladies here though... ) Bitter? Who's bitter? Not me!
Thanks for the sympathy, but it isn't needed, I don't suppose. On an unrelated note: "Some folk'll never loose a toe, but then again some folk'll... like cletus the slack jawed yokel!" "Some folk'll never eat a skunk but then again some folk'll, like cletus the slack jawed yokel!" I love Cletus!
