Thinking about bondage more fun different then expeirence, not a complaint but!

When I imagine it I imagine getting this super sexy feeling of being "extra naked" and that's I guess a good way of describing in bed hands and feet tied to corners.

Then when I get a girlfriend to do it to me it doesn't match up with what I was expecting. Suddenly I am just like wow I really can't get out of here, pull a few times and test it, wait a second try again, yikes I really can't! This is serious.

Super fun game to be playing with you partner I am defiantly a fan. I let that spell check typo stay "defiantly a fan" LOL definitely a fan, hours of fun with your partner if your lucky.

What I don't understand is the memory loss of what being all tied helpless really feels like.

Even with my one girlfriend where we did this to each other all the time the imagination of what the experience was going to be vs what it was was so different.

Now my experience is not as often and this last time total memory loss of exactly what its like being tied.

I don't understand that.